Thank you so much for the advice. I will deeply consider this plan! I am a first generation college student and am clueless on most things college related. All I know is I have what it takes to make it happen (Lord willing I don't go crazy at the end of the day). Also, the "glide year" is a term I've never heard of either. It sounds fantastic though.
One more question: When you said coming in a soph changes things, does that mean it makes things more difficult or easier? (Another hard to answer question)
I understand completely. I'm first generation college, as well (and a non-traditional student, to boot). My sister went to college, but went for an English/Teaching degree, so I really had no one to get information from on pursing a professional level degree until I started reading. A lot. Hopefully I can come up with questions you didn't think to ask so you can skip a lot of the learning curve.
Coming in as a soph definitely makes things more time crunched. With the application cycle for med school being about 15 months long (people who are submitting their applications this month are doing so in order to start med school in August 2012, not this coming fall like you would expect), you basically need to get your pre-reqs done in two years (otherwise you won't be ready to take the MCAT in your second semester of your junior year so you can apply between junior and senior year). Most importantly this means you don't have the opportunity to take any upper level biology classes that might better prepare you for the MCAT unless you schedule in a glide year.
A few other thoughts:
a) You'll hear this from other people, and be likely to dismiss it out of hand, but at least try to keep it in the back of your mind: NEVER plan your life around someone else. Yes, you've been together 2.5 years, but college and growing into your early 20s changes everyone. There's every possibility that you two might stay together, but you absolutely can not sacrifice your future in any way for him. Also, is he going to A&M as well or is he going somewhere else? If so, where/how far away?
b) Have you decided on what you think (think being operative here, cause it will likely change) you'll pursue as a major? Contrary to common belief by people outside this little world, 'Pre-medicine' is not a major in college. Contrary to the common belief of people who know that tidbit, a Biology is *not* the only degree that will get you into med school. In fact, a humanities degree will, in many ways, give you a better shot. Yeah, take a second to recover from that stunning bit of info, I know I had to.
c) I'm assuming you're living in dorms for at least your freshman year. If that's the case, what sort of meal plan are you looking at? Single/double/triple room? If its not, what do your living arrangements look like? Also, how far away from home are you moving?