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Most people struggle with some kind of depression, anxiety or otherwise mental illness, period. Including physicians...
Not really. Everyone has times they feel nervous or off their game. But I'd say it's a minority who are actually actively struggling with mental illness. your post above is not accurate.
Do some people with depression and mental illness figure out a way to lick it and become good doctors? Absolutely. But let's not pretend all can or do.
I didn't necessarily say that everyone has the resources and tools necessary ($$$) to overcome adversities like this, but because she's already noted that she's managing the anxiety with medication (which I'm assuming is being supplemented with CBT, or has been in the past), I'm pretty confident that she can be greater than her illness.
You're a physician, isn't it your job to help people up, instead of looking down in disdain? Give OP the BOTD.
I don't think it's about giving the OP the benefit of the doubt or not. And I don't think Law2Doc was overly dismissive. I think all he/she/they asked was that the OP be realistic about the unique challenges they face in pursuing a medical career, the unique challenges the study and practice of medicine presents, and the necessity of awareness (and consideration) as to how their pursuit of this particular career could impact themselves and others.
While I would certainly never argue that we are all equal in the challenges (obstacles) we face to become medical professionals, I think that we could all benefit from individually engaging these same questions (considerations).
First I didn't say I had disdain for the OP or even say the OP couldn't do this. I said some people with these issues can't, that medicine isn't the right path for everyone, and that OP should do some serious soul searching before launching down this path. Second, the job of Doctor is not to help people up so they can fall, taking out a few patients on the way down. Sometimes the best role of a doctor is to help people see the truth....
You're a physician, isn't it your job to help people up, instead of looking down in disdain? ...
This has just been a fact of my life. It's something I have to deal with on a daily basis. I've gone through therapy and have been given medication. With the right medication I am functional as best as 95% of the average person's ability who is not plagued by obsessive thoughts. So it's not too bad, just some annoying thoughts that I deal with.
But when I transition medications, crippling, debilitating anxiety comes back which I must fight through.
Should I consider a different career path? Mentally I have been gifted with quite an intellect at the cost of significant anxiety.
Medicine has always been my passion. Should my psychological illness keep me from pursuing my lifelong dream? What are your thoughts?
Her OP is really simmering with indifference and undue optimism about the medical profession and its unique challenges. It's anxiety—one of the most prevalent mental illnesses on the planet—not an intellectual disability.
She just wants to know that there's someone out there who is like her. The need for validation is within all of us, but especially so in someone who has anxiety and worries about their future. I would err on the side of comforting what could easily be your future patient, than putting her down and feeding her confirmation bias as she contemplates what she's going to do with the rest of her life.
First I didn't say I had disdain for the OP or even say the OP couldn't do this. I said some people with these issues can't, that medicine isn't the right path for everyone, and that OP should do some serious soul searching before launching down this path. Second, the job of Doctor is not to help people up so they can fall, taking out a few patients on the way down. Sometimes the best role of a doctor is to help people see the truth.
I think this is where we principally differ: I don't think I, or anyone in this thread, was putting the OP down. Given the responses the OP could have received on a public forum, I think the responses the OP received here were incredibly civil, in some respect informed (Law2Doc is an attending physician who has experienced the stress and challenges that the OP, myself, and others can only begin to imagine), and measured.
Furthermore, I think that so easily dismissing the challenges the OP will face in the pursuit of medicine (with or without the challenges presented by an extreme anxiety) is far more dangerous than the idea that 'bias confirming' responses might dissuade them from the practice of medicine. They didn't ask, "Is someone out there like me?" They asked, "Should my psychological illness keep me from pursuing my lifelong dream?" AND then they asked, "What are your thoughts?" The members of this forum provided honest and constructive responses based on their experiences. Anything less would not have been honest or in service to the OP.
As to comforting...at the end of the day, as a patient, I would certainly appreciate a physician who leans towards being honest with me as opposed to comforting me. While I can not be sure long term impact, effectiveness, or outcome of comfort, I can be certain that their honesty will help me to make better more informed choices.
Considering the general attitude of folks on the forums, you have to understand where I'm coming from. I've personally struggled with anxiety and depression myself, and have had to overcome some serious obstacles to get to where I am. I see myself where the OP was, a few years ago, and I, like her, doubted my own ability to pursue medicine, given my personal traits
It took the faith of my mentors, a PhD, and 3 MD/PhDs, to stay in biology and forge ahead on the path to medicine. And I've been massively successful: accepted to medical schools, with an extended network of physicians and academics behind me to vouch for my quality of work.
Sometimes, what people here need is just a simple "go get 'em." It takes a certain level of intelligence to pursue medicine: I think she's well aware of what medicine might entail and the physical, mental, and emotional struggle of getting there.
All I'm saying is, think about what it was like, before you knew you'd come down this path, and how immeasurably high the standards were to get to where you are. I think people need a smidge more compassion around here, especially as "healers."
1) "95% functional" seems really extreme, especially having been through therapy and actively on medication. Give me a break— 2) this girl isn't suicidal and I'm pretty sure that everyone who has stepped foot in a hospital has encountered a physician who needs a consult or five on the psych floor.
Medical school is a furnace, and I've seen it break even healthy students.
if your anxiety can be kept 100% under control, you're fine. But if not, I can't recommend this career path.
Mental illness is the #1 reason students either fail out at my school, are dismissed, or fail to graduate with their peers.
So make sure your psychiatrist is on board with this.
Listen to @Goro
I have extreme anxiety which was kept under control with only using PRN meds (I am the one who thinks meds are a last resort). My doctors said I looked like I would be more than fine in medical school. Then medical school happened and I had what only can be described as literally the semester from hell. Breakins, assault, drunks, etc. And that is all just at my house. I ended up with severe PTSD. I had to take a medical LOA to see if I can get it under control.
I am so sorry that your experience did not go as you hoped. I wish you the very best in the path to recovery. I am certain you can get to a place where you can once again work toward your dreams. I strongly advise you to seek therapy, and medication to treat your severe anxiety can make things a lot easier for you. Life doesn't have to be this difficult.