I am new to this forum, but I thought this would be an appropriate place to start seeking some information. I am contemplating going to optometry school. This would be a significant life shift for me as I have a master's degree in another field (non-science) and have been out of graduate school for 10 years. I would like to know how difficult optometry school will be with a family? Thoughts from others who have done it? Advice from other Non-Trads? Anything would help in my decision making process. Thank you.
I'm currently a third year optometry student, and I'm doing exactly what you are considering.
I got my undergrad degree in mathematics (circa 1992), and worked in the IT field for 12 years or so before deciding to quit & attend optometry school.
I'm married, and we have two children (currently ages 8 & 5). Our son (the younger) was 7 months old when I decided to go back to school and start the process of completing optometry school pre-reqs, & applying for admission to the schools.
It took me 3 years or so to get all the pre-reqs completed, take the OAT & apply and be accepted to optometry school. I continued to work full time while I was taking 1 or 2 pre-reqs a semester at the local JuCo at night.
We sold our home & moved ~300 miles to the closest optometry school. This has actually been a mixed blessing for our family. While we miss being close (30-40 minutes) to the "grandparents", it turns out that the schools where we live now are *MUCH* better for our children than the school back home in the small town we came from.
About the time we moved here for me to attend optometry school, our son had an MRI, which showed that there were some developmental anomalies with his brain. He has a mild type I chiari formation, as well as extensive areas of grey matter ecotopia. He was born with a mild-moderate conductive hearing loss, and was fit with hearing aids at 7 months old. He will be six in October, and still does not talk yet. He received speech therapy from the county until he was three years old, at which time he started with the "early childhood" preschools. In two weeks, he will be starting kindergarten & will be in a "special school district" classroom in a "mainstream" school.
The point of all this is not to (bore) you with the details of my situation, but to simply say, I did it, and (so far), I've survived. It hasn't been easy, but I didn't expect that it would be.
The question you need to answer (and only you can do it) is "Are you called to serve your fellow man as an optometrist?" If so, then you should go for it. If not, then another path would be right for you. If you're not sure, take some time & do some soul searching & the answer that is right for you will be apparent.
For me, I decided that I didn't want to wake up 10 years from now and live with the question "What if I had
tried optometry?" For me I would've rather tried & failed rather than not attempted it & wonder "what if I had?" Another factor in my decision was after my IT job was outsourced to India. I convinced myself that I had gone as far as I was going to go in IT, and that I needed to change careers to "survive" until retirement. At that time, I was reminded of a childhood dream of being an optometrist when I grow up. So, it was kind of a no-brainer...time to grow up and realize my childhood dream
🙂 Also, I had grown weary of my daily existance in the cube where I interacted with the same 3-5 people every day for 5 years. It was time to use my given abilities to help other people rather than just myself...
I've had my doubts in the early going. Honestly, now that I'm seeing patients one day a week in clinic, I still have days where I question whether I made the right choice. It wouldn't surprise me if I still have a few of those days 5 or 10 years from now when I'm out of school & practicing optometry full time!
In closing, I'd just like to say that, 'yes' it is possible for a mid-aged family man (or woman) to go back to school & complete optometry (or any other professional) education. It is not easy, and will require an understanding & strong spouse as well as solid family support. I did it, and there are countless others who are doing it or have done it.
If you have any questions about what or how we did this, feel free to send me a PM here...
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UMSL College of Optometry Class of 2010.