To comment on the aunt/uncle dying - that really isn't considered immediate family like mom/dad. The schools have to draw a line somewhere. There is ALWAYS going to be some tragedy in life and if they let a student out for every little thing there wouldn't be a school to run. Residency is WORSE - my grandmother died while I was in residency - I missed the funeral by 3 days. There was no way around it as I was chief resident an only had the weekend off. Life happens, need to be able to deal with the good and the bad. You can't close your office on every little whim either. Not to be cold but it's the nature of the profession. I was in the hospital too during medical school for a week, and home for a week. My study group brought me the material and reviewed everything with me and I only went to school to take the exam - no extensions, etc. I work urgent care - I cannot call in sick, there is no replacement for me. I have worked through abd pain, kidney stones, migraine, sinus, etc. It's the life we choose.