First, I will say this: I applied to all Christian-based doctoral programs and was accepted to every single one I applied to: 4/6 programs (George Fox, Regent, Fuller, and Wheaton). I didnt apply to Rosemead because I didnt believe their doctrine. I went to George Fox University, a Quaker institution. I am not representing their administrative views. I can state from my personal experience with LGBTQ in our PsyD program. Because Quakers believe in social justice, it is quite possible to go through the program and be LGBTQ. It is Christian-based, but it is also one of the best PsyD programs in the nation (one of the top 10). I've had multiple gay friends in the program. Although you do sign a "contract" the faculty are actually quite oblivious because they have more important things to do. We have multiple LGBT students (some are still in the confusion stage, but have eventually come out). Some are partnered. The faculty doesn't mind this and they do not want to get involved in your personal life, ONLY IF it affects your professional life. My wife and I lived together before marriage and although that is against their contract, they didn't care. It was a moot point to them. I wouldn't attend more fundamentalist programs like Regent.
You get good training and if you look at the stats, we pretty much always place ALL people in accredited internships (I think our rate is 96-100%). Overall, there is dialogue on campus about LGBT issues among students and our program is much more liberal because we have to be as psychologists if we are going to do the best work we can. That is my experience. If you have any questions, please feel free to PM me and I can explain a little more as needed. Because Ive applied to multiple Christian programs, actually been through one, gotte an APA approved internship AND since I have been on the admissions committee there, I believe Im in a good place to discuss your concerns with you.
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