For sure. But I think that if we're talking about labor, you have to remember that the circumstances are different. Everything is heightened during labor and women are spending a LOT of time exposed.
I would say that the number one complaint I get is that students walk into the room and 1.) Stare at them like they are a ticking time bomb, 2.) JUST stare at ladytown and don't take any time to make eye contact, 3.) Don't talk to them or introduce themselves properly, and 4.) Have no clue what it is like to be in labor.
And this isn't just men....it is OBs and students in general. If you take some time to maybe read a little bit about labor or read a book about labor coaching, you can maybe have some empathy that other students won't have and BELIEVE ME a little bit of empathy and understanding goes a looooong way with a woman in labor.
Like, don't try to talk to a woman during a contraction....it just doesn't work🙂 And talk to HER, not her partner. She isn't sick....she's just preggers🙂 And understand how a lot of women have strong ideas about things they want during labor, and the psychological component of choice is really important for a positive outcome during labor.
A lot of those same rules apply during a general well-woman exam too....don't stare at ladytown, make eye contact, etc etc.
Ok...I will get off my soapbox now😉