This happened a number of months ago, your comment as a physician is disappointing nonetheless.
<sigh>
I can understand why his comment might be jarring.
But I don't think you understand how bad the past 2 years have been for physicians. I'm tired and burnt out and I'm just primary care - not ICU or emergency medicine.
From having to work overtime because of staff shortages and high patient demand, to the debilitating fear of bringing COVID home to your family, to worries about your pay being cut because of falling revenues across all health systems - it was a lot. Added to that, many of us have children who couldn't be in school or daycare safely, but we had to keep working, so we patchworked together tenuous childcare options - for the past 2 years, it has felt like everything was on a knife edge but you couldn't let it come crashing down because if you did, who was going to see all these patients? Your overextended colleagues?
And now there's a way out with vaccines but patients don't want it. Worse, there are those who mock me or scream angrily at me because I encourage them to get the vaccine. That's ignoring those who told me that I was basically committing child abuse for getting vaccinated while pregnant.
I've been a physician for 12 years and, like all physicians, I have had my bad days and weeks. But I have never wanted to quit medicine entirely as much as I did over this past year. The reaction against the vaccine (which is literally lifesaving) has been utterly demoralizing.
I get while you might find his comment distasteful. But until you've experienced this pandemic in the shoes of a physician, I don't think you get to judge. And no, working as a healthcare worker and "seeing what goes on on the frontlines" isn't the same - clearly, as a mystifyingly high number of other healthcare workers are still NOT VACCINATED.