well.. unlike a lot of people that have their relationship start..marriage start..and divorce start.. in 5 years- we opted out of that option and decided to give it more time 😛
in all fairness, we started dating when we were 19, so we're just now getting to the age where we were even THINKING about wanting to get married. 🙄
Don't stress on people that question your reasons behind when you're getting married, they don't know your history.
My wife and I get the same sort of questions about why we don't want children. "Awww, you guys are almost 30, and no kids!?" as if it's nearly a requirement in your mid-20s.