Hi. New to this thread. I met a lovely first year resident, and we have hung out for the past few months at least once a week, getting to know each other. We have been keeping it low key. I have been cooking for him a lot (he loves my cooking), and I think it helps that I too am a professional (lawyer) with weird and grueling hours, and independent. The thing: I've noticed lately he's gotten very sad and discouraged sometimes, and he's constantly exhausted. He frets about his student loan debt though I keep assuring him that it doesn't matter to me. Sometimes it takes forever for him to answer a phone call. In addition, he's about to head into a very intense and scary rotation soon. How do I best encourage him?