lol JAD
What are the chances this guy reads this forum and has figured out who the OP is with his detective skills. I don't know though, it could be difficult considering he doesn't have much to work with.. picture, age, school & year of graduation, location & occupation.
Regarding the subject matter at hand..
Solution: Send him an email with a link to this thread.
Outcome: He will read it and realize the error of his ways. Since he probably doesn't have your phone number (yet), he will immediately set up an account on SDN in order to post a reply. In that post he will confess that he finds you irresistible but has kept his distance because he is married to surgery and can't cheat on his wife. After a few paragraphs of trying to rationalize his attraction to you, he will ask you out on a date. The venue: hospital cafeteria.. so all your coworkers can see. They will be overcome with jealousy and you will become the most envied nurse in the hospital. More importantly, in his post
he will reveal that he is neither a resident or attending. He is the chief of surgery.