AggieAnthony wrote: You truly owe it to yourself to attend the more well-known school. The beauty of human beings is that we are infinitely adaptable, and you will forever look back at your shot at being in the #1 ranked program and wonder, "How much better could my career have been if I'd gone to X school?"
Another way to look at it:
You truly owe it to yourself to attend the more school where you'll be happiest. The beauty of human beings is our capacity to thrive when happy, and you will forever look back at your shot at being in a program that would have made you happier and wonder, "How much better could my career have been if I'd gone to X school?"
Just pointing out the implicit assumptions that may have been nested in AA's post.
Your version is quite appropriate as well, =]
OP requested advice regarding a decision, and pulling from my anecdotal life experience (Both my own personal life experience and those of colleagues) and suggested a path.
I apologize for making my opinion seem like I was making an argument like this:
"Because prestige is important, not going to the most prestigious school will cause you regret later in your life."
The implicit assumption is that pursuing a decision is necessarily a cause for regret/genuflection in the future, while the stated assumption is that prestige is important, and therefore OP should pursue the more prestigious solution.
I definitely could've been much more careful in my wording of my opinion, no doubt, and I should've emphasized the anecdotal nature of it. It is my mistake to assume that
everything on an internet message board is based on opinion rather than fact unless otherwise noted.
I wasn't aware I needed to write as if I was first-lining an article in the APA monthly, but I do acknowledge my error in presenting anecdotal experience/conjecture as an implicit assumption of what's important to the OP.