good questions i am looking at it myslef. and wondering.. i think in the transfer of electrons it will be more stable for the Amines to stay together..?? i dont' know..
Its explained pretty well, you have to pay close attention to detail which is tough when reading explainations. as ash said, the AMINE(NH2) group is what is reactive. The AMIDE (NH2-C=0) doesnt partake in this rxn.