So, I did not match into OB and I did not get anything in the scramble.  My self-esteem has been battered and the advice I've been getting has been very superficial.  So, I'm hoping there is a PD, attending, others in the same boat that could offer some real advice.  Here are my stats:
 
Big 4 carib school
Step 1: 207 (second attempt)
Step 2: 211
GPA 3.2
US citizen, female
2 interviews
MPH from an Ivy school (before med school)
LOTS of experience, some research
 
I have already taken a gap year (graduated 2009) for personal reasons (married).  What do I do now?  How do I improve my standing for the programs to get past that Step 1 score and really look at me.  
 
I found a great family medicine program that I really think I could be happy in but I'm so insecure in myself right now that I think I will never match.....I feel like the poor scrawny kid that no one picked for the kickball team! 🙁  Bring on the honest advice....