so around christmas, one of the programs I interviewed at emailed me wishing me happy holidays and told me if i wanted to, they look forward for me to come back for a visit. so i naturally responded back reciprocating the greeting and told them i also look forward to the possibility of attending a residency dinner thats going to be held in a few weeks.
the faculty responded back saying, he's glad that I'm making time to come to dinner
i wasnt 100 percent sure if i was going to be able to make the dinner, and now i cant make the dinner because i have another interview that day.
does the faculty member think that I am coming to their dinner? of course I'm going to RSVP the resident who is hosting the dinner, but I don't want to antagonize their expectations. should i email the faculty member and explain to him how I have another interview now, and i wont be able to make it? wouldnt this make me look bad in the eyes of that program? maybe make me look ambivalent or uninterested?
or should i just RSVP the resident normally, and let him know I'm regretfully not making it?
the faculty responded back saying, he's glad that I'm making time to come to dinner
i wasnt 100 percent sure if i was going to be able to make the dinner, and now i cant make the dinner because i have another interview that day.
does the faculty member think that I am coming to their dinner? of course I'm going to RSVP the resident who is hosting the dinner, but I don't want to antagonize their expectations. should i email the faculty member and explain to him how I have another interview now, and i wont be able to make it? wouldnt this make me look bad in the eyes of that program? maybe make me look ambivalent or uninterested?
or should i just RSVP the resident normally, and let him know I'm regretfully not making it?