In residency, you will have less than 20k after taxes and paying loans back,
First of all, I want to make it clear before I respond that im not "disadvantaged," so its not like im taking personal offense to what youre saying and just trying to defend my own situation. Im looking at this really objectively too.
Maybe im off as to the cruelty of some interviewers but 20k as a single resident not supporting a/o but yourself, is livable. You may not be driving a Jag and skiing in St Moritz and Aspen, but you can live off that. And if youre married and your spouse is doing s/t other than medicine, your income increases then too...
You cant compare a single 20 something year old resident (or married w/ maybe 1 or 2 kids 20 something year old resident) to a FAMILY trying to survive on 20 grand.
you'll probably spend most of your time in the hospital (public housing),
but will have a home to go to at night (well at least 2 out of every 3 nights). It may not be on Park Avenue (in the case of OP who is looking at top tier NYC schools), but its still "home" and probably wont be in some housing project.
most of the people you deal with will be terminally ill,
um, major difference between dealing with terminally ill people at work, and having terminally ill family members, and having to grapple with illness and death on a much more personal level at a young age. I think thats just a tad insensitive and I dont think any interviewer (who is most probably a physician and has been treating many terminally ill people for many years) would be so dumb as to look at it that way. Being a doctor is a JOB. no matter how passionate you are about it, no matter how screwed up your priorities are, and no matter how much people want to make it seem like it is the most noblest of all jobs. When it boils down to it, its a JOB, and when you go home, you can put your cases behind you (emotionally at least). Not so with family. That is REAL life.
and you will have to work to pay the bills.
Yea. Just like all the other 25 year olds in this country. But a teenager in High School is not expected to go out and work to pay the bills. They should be in school, and having to work to support your family at a time when most of your friends spend their evenings and weekends at movies or parties or whatever, is really tough.
AB2701, I dont think that disadvantaged status is an "excuse" for bad grades, but I DO think that it is definitely something they will take into consideration when reviewing your file. Also, just keep in mind, this was just your first year. Lots of NOT disadvantaged kids screw up their first year of college b/c their so busy doing fraternity stuff or drinking and partying...and they get in to med school too. An upward trend in grades is something admissions committees like to see (or so i hear)
Its really amazing that youre pursuing this despite all the obstacles youve had to endure. All I can say is wow. Just keep pushing ahead and youll succeed! I am really glad that AMCAS has this "disadvantaged" option, because honestly, I think that the whole URM thing is overrated and is just a disguised form of reverse discrimination....it should ALL be based on economic status, or "disadvantaged" status, not what race you come from. So good luck to you the next few years...you can do it!!