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I've considered coming back here to post my story in the hope that it might help someone in some way, so I'm doing it.
A little background: After about 5 years of the idea rattling around in the back of my mind I made the decision to go back to school for science classes, take the MCAT, apply to schools, and eventually become a doctor. I think the non-trad story is similar for everyone so I'll skip the details.
I shadowed a neurosurgeon and a neurologist during my studies and the weird thing was that both of them and other doctors I talked to told me to avoid medicine. I had a great life, ran my own successful but modest company and was pursuing the MD to feel like I was helping people in a more personal and "larger" way. They said that going back to school would destroy everything good I've built in my life so far and turn me into a miserable person. These doctors were not miserable themselves (well, one was, but I don't think he was speaking strictly out of bitterness) and I feel were giving me an honest assessment.
Well, I didn't believe them and forged ahead. I did great in my pre-reqs, 3.9 average, did okay on the MCAT, 30Q, not bad for a previous PoliSci major, and applied. I went through two unsuccessful cycles, each with what I thought were great interviews, and decided to not waste any more time with it. Yes, I quit and moved on.
Best decision of my life. I was disappointed in myself at first, sure, because I felt that I was a failure and not good enough, but I eventually got past that nonsense and found ways to accomplish what I was seeking through other means. Also, looking back at what I would have missed as I started a family (child #3 due in October) and grew a business I would have been a fool to trade what I have now for long hours in the library, lab, or hospital.
I've come to grips with the fact that it takes all kinds to make this world better and the willing contribute in different ways. My way will not be as a doctor and I'm okay with that.
I guess the point that I hope will benefit someone is to not bank everything on a successful application. I know the nature of the application cycle and I know how easy it is to focus on that and nothing else, but, in the end, no matter what, you will be okay. Everything will be okay! Take it from a happy non-doctor.
A little background: After about 5 years of the idea rattling around in the back of my mind I made the decision to go back to school for science classes, take the MCAT, apply to schools, and eventually become a doctor. I think the non-trad story is similar for everyone so I'll skip the details.
I shadowed a neurosurgeon and a neurologist during my studies and the weird thing was that both of them and other doctors I talked to told me to avoid medicine. I had a great life, ran my own successful but modest company and was pursuing the MD to feel like I was helping people in a more personal and "larger" way. They said that going back to school would destroy everything good I've built in my life so far and turn me into a miserable person. These doctors were not miserable themselves (well, one was, but I don't think he was speaking strictly out of bitterness) and I feel were giving me an honest assessment.
Well, I didn't believe them and forged ahead. I did great in my pre-reqs, 3.9 average, did okay on the MCAT, 30Q, not bad for a previous PoliSci major, and applied. I went through two unsuccessful cycles, each with what I thought were great interviews, and decided to not waste any more time with it. Yes, I quit and moved on.
Best decision of my life. I was disappointed in myself at first, sure, because I felt that I was a failure and not good enough, but I eventually got past that nonsense and found ways to accomplish what I was seeking through other means. Also, looking back at what I would have missed as I started a family (child #3 due in October) and grew a business I would have been a fool to trade what I have now for long hours in the library, lab, or hospital.
I've come to grips with the fact that it takes all kinds to make this world better and the willing contribute in different ways. My way will not be as a doctor and I'm okay with that.
I guess the point that I hope will benefit someone is to not bank everything on a successful application. I know the nature of the application cycle and I know how easy it is to focus on that and nothing else, but, in the end, no matter what, you will be okay. Everything will be okay! Take it from a happy non-doctor.