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I'm asking for a friend who will be doing at least 1 fellowship in Surgical Pathology soon.
Thanks for the help in advance.
Thanks for the help in advance.
There’s a flip side to this coin as well. As idealistic as it may sound to work part time or just go off the radar and live la dolce vita in Tuscany, it’s just not practical for the majority of us in this field, particularly early on. Unless you’re a trust fund baby, married another doctor/successful professional who’s the breadwinner, or consider medicine your side gig while flipping beachfront houses or managing hedge funds, this will be a full time profession for most people over the bulk of their career. There may not be a connection between higher pay and sitting in the office all day, but there is an obvious correlation between income and working part time vs full time.
If you’re coming out of training like most residents/fellows and are 300K in debt, married, buying a house, starting a family and without any sort of nest egg, then you’ll practically have to work full time. Working 2d/wk or picking up locums here and there making 100-150K/yr ain’t gonna cut it. Sacrificing income now means you’re just pushing your retirement later and you could wind up being that decrepit old pathologist…
Sounds like you're really into "you". Med school debt?These are great posts especially LADoc. And thank you yaah for responding to my private message a few months ago.
1) Life is short. I'm gonna be 40 soon for reference.
After graduating from a great medical school ('04) I decided to take some time off from medicine. I thought it would be a year or two then I would come crawling back. It has been 13 years. I spent my 30s running a small business unrelated to pathology (which is the only residency I would ever, ever, ever do) and worked 25-35 hours a week. My income was a little over 100k on average.
I say this because income is only one variable to financial health and happiness.
I competed in the MATCH the past two years, and I get interviews but not many. The people at my school are not so helpful and I even kinda got shut out by a colleague who was actually in my medical school class and a friend. I did nothing wrong and the person even wrote me a character LOR this season and now shut out (won't reply to email)
As I look back on my thirties, I think the reason they were so fun, and it felt like I had so much money was because I am not a fan of marriage or children or real estate. I knew I wanted to only get married after 40 if ever, and I would never buy a house unless I wanted to start a family.
I send my cousin an email about this who is a wicked data scientist hacker type and his boss is all up in arms about how could they not want an awesome doctor from an awesome school! It's because of my time off obviously and the 1997 residency freeze or w/e.
He offers to train me to become a data scientist. It's the sexiest job ever and they make bank. Nice. I'm gonna take a year off from the pathology match and see what happens. This is not an anti-pathology or anti-doctor post. It just wasn't working out FOR ME so I'm gonna do what I did last time and see what else is out there.
I bought a baby blue Aston when I had a quarter life crisis at 30. Is that better than a beamer?
These are great posts especially LADoc. And thank you yaah for responding to my private message a few months ago.
1) Life is short. I'm gonna be 40 soon for reference.
After graduating from a great medical school ('04) I decided to take some time off from medicine. I thought it would be a year or two then I would come crawling back. It has been 13 years. I spent my 30s running a small business unrelated to pathology (which is the only residency I would ever, ever, ever do) and worked 25-35 hours a week. My income was a little over 100k on average.
I say this because income is only one variable to financial health and happiness.
I competed in the MATCH the past two years, and I get interviews but not many. The people at my school are not so helpful and I even kinda got shut out by a colleague who was actually in my medical school class and a friend. I did nothing wrong and the person even wrote me a character LOR this season and now shut out (won't reply to email)
As I look back on my thirties, I think the reason they were so fun, and it felt like I had so much money was because I am not a fan of marriage or children or real estate. I knew I wanted to only get married after 40 if ever, and I would never buy a house unless I wanted to start a family.
I send my cousin an email about this who is a wicked data scientist hacker type and his boss is all up in arms about how could they not want an awesome doctor from an awesome school! It's because of my time off obviously and the 1997 residency freeze or w/e.
He offers to train me to become a data scientist. It's the sexiest job ever and they make bank. Nice. I'm gonna take a year off from the pathology match and see what happens. This is not an anti-pathology or anti-doctor post. It just wasn't working out FOR ME so I'm gonna do what I did last time and see what else is out there.
I bought a baby blue Aston when I had a quarter life crisis at 30. Is that better than a beamer?
My story was to illustrate that a vast majority of older physicians will never their job until they "set for life" but when you ask them what "set for life" is, they have no clue, no $$ amount, no road to get there..nothing. A vast majority of humans are on a treadmill to nowhere for reasons they cant even well verbalize.
I know the day I will be done with this and that day is getting closer and closer. I may dabble here and there, but in the not so distant future I will be the guy living the relaxed life while other folks imagine I have some huge inherited trust fund...(which is not case as my parents were somewhere between dirt poor and blue collar America)
Im not so sure making crazy amounts of $$ is the answer, it CAN help but often it doesn't for most Prodigious Under-accumulators of Wealth which physicians are like literally at the top of the chart. Nah most doctors spend money like they are (racist term) rich (will omit the actual word for all the SDN PC ears cant handle much). They die barely middle class having slaved away for 50 years post residency in some crap job they hate. Very few of us will escape the trap. It's akin to escaping prostitution, the lure of relatively easy money, something you know you can do and their spendy lifestyle is a total prison.
I told this doc the other day he was a slave, his reply was "Im not a slave, I drive a BMW!" Yah...yah keep telling yourself that.