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Let's talk about it. It's definitely important, especially if you're going to be working as a general practitioner or in emergency medicine.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/horrible-reactions-to-chris-brown-at-the-grammys
For those who don't feel like opening the link, it's a bunch of twitter posts essentially saying, "I'd let Chris Brown punch me. Stop saying that he shouldn't be performing."
But there's also a comment, that I'll quote, that was fantastic:
There are so many other factors at play here, and I'll trust that you guys will bring it up.
Oh, and since I know that it's possible that it will come up (We've seen it happen before), let's avoid talking about abortion in this one.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/horrible-reactions-to-chris-brown-at-the-grammys
For those who don't feel like opening the link, it's a bunch of twitter posts essentially saying, "I'd let Chris Brown punch me. Stop saying that he shouldn't be performing."
But there's also a comment, that I'll quote, that was fantastic:
So what's the solution? Because as physicians, we're far more likely to come in contact with the victims. What do you do if your patient continually returns to clinic showing clear signs of abuse? And for the record, consider all gender scenarios, because male to male, male to female, female to male, and female to female domestic violence all exists, whether or not it's reported as such. Would you treat a male who had two black eyes the same way you would treat a female? And should you?I love how full to ****ing brimming these comments are with people making sweeping comments about how "stupid" women are, etc. Because that's completely where the focus needs to be in conversations about domestic abuse: on women's stupidity rather than on the abusive behaviour perpetrated and sanctioned by men. You know what the problem with the valorisation of Chris Brown is? The problem is that nobody, including and especially other men, is stopping men from abusing women. Like. Yes. These status updates are a mess and it's ****ed up and not okay when women glamorise or tacitly endorse abuse but let's be real here: these women are not posting in a vacuum and they didn't create this idea; they're posting in the context of a culture where domestic abuse is routinely forgiven and washed away, where music execs and producers and awards shows and etc. will put you on a stage and give you a Grammy three years after you put your girlfriend in the hospital -- they're posting in the context of a culture which tells them implicitly and explicitly to think like this. And somehow they're the ones being critiqued -- not the power structures which keep Chris Brown and Michael Fassbender and a metric ****ton of other abusers in business. These comments are a god damn mess. A mess.
There are so many other factors at play here, and I'll trust that you guys will bring it up.
Oh, and since I know that it's possible that it will come up (We've seen it happen before), let's avoid talking about abortion in this one.