Doubts about going to school in Manhattan

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Just wrapped up interviews for some of the schools here in the city. The schools themselves were great, and I really think the curriculum, programs, and general vibe fits what I am looking for. Literally the only thing I have apprehension about is living here. Having been checking out the city for about a week (my first time ever), I've tried to get a feel for the place beyond just the touristy stuff...

I have never felt so anxious going around in some place before, everyone seems to be upset all the time. The density of people here is a little overwhelming for me as well, there just doesn't seem to be enough space for everyone. I also love the outdoors which is obviously hard to fulfill living in a concrete jungle. It's been a great visit and I have had a lot of fun treating it like a vacation, though the thought of living here for so long is intimidating and kind of depressing.

For context, I am from the west coast but grew up in some suburbs in New England. Does anyone have some perspective they could give me? Perhaps you were apprehensive about moving to a city you didn't like, I would love to know if it worked out in the end. Basically, I am trying to figure out if this is just a triviality I can overcome by giving it a shot, I don't want to throw a chance at med school down the drain without knowing it was the right choice for me.

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I'm currently an M2 in NYC. The school is good, but I hate NYC with a passion. I spent most of my life since I moved to this country living upstate so starting medical school was a very big change for me. Unfortunately I have lot of problems with this city in general. Too many to name here but off the top of my head the the things that really bother me are the high cost of living, rude, self-absorbed people, terrible conditions for driving/parking, limited freedoms (politically), noisiness and lack of privacy. I like you am and outdoors person as well and find myself with no hobbies whatsoever in this city. Manhattan is probably the worst of the five burrows, but they are all pretty bad IMO. If you end up getting other interviews/acceptances and place a high importance on where you live, I would strongly suggest looking elsewhere.
 
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I was born and raised in NYC and even I sometimes feel the way you feel. Do you have to get your own place in Manhattan or can you branch out to other boroughs? There are more secluded and quiet places in NYC to get away from all of the chaos.

Well the schools all offer student housing that is pretty affordable, but it isn't mandatory. I would be willing to pay a bit more to have a place to go and escape, is it all that different in the other boroughs? I wouldn't know.

I'm currently an M2 in NYC. The school is good, but I hate NYC with a passion. I spent most of my life since I moved to this country living upstate so starting medical school was a very big change for me. Unfortunately I have lot of problems with this city in general. Too many to name here but off the top of my head the the things that really bother me are the high cost of living, rude people, terrible conditions for driving/parking, limited freedoms (politically), nosiness and lack of privacy. I like you am and outdoors person as well and find myself with no hobbies whatsoever in this city. Manhattan is probably the worst of the five burrows, but they are all pretty bad IMO. If you end up getting other interviews/acceptances and place a high importance on where you live, I would strongly suggest looking elsewhere.

Glad to hear it straight from someone. I feel like I will be the same, where the school will be good but I will still hate where I live. I guess the question is, if my only acceptance was in NYC would I still come here, and how important is rank of the school vs the city it is in? I have 10ish other interviews so far, but these NYC ones were the first I attended so I don't have an acceptance yet.
 
Well the schools all offer student housing that is pretty affordable, but it isn't mandatory. I would be willing to pay a bit more to have a place to go and escape, is it all that different in the other boroughs? I wouldn't know.



Glad to hear it straight from someone. I feel like I will be the same, where the school will be good but I will still hate where I live. I guess the question is, if my only acceptance was in NYC would I still come here, and how important is rank of the school vs the city it is in? I have 10ish other interviews so far, but these NYC ones were the first I attended so I don't have an acceptance yet.
Check out places in Queens, Brooklyn, The Bronx, Yonkers, and Westchester. To get from Yonkers/Westchester (suburbs) to Manhattan, you'd need a car, but the other three all you'd have to do is hop on the train. Having to pay for a car, parking, insurance, and maintenance would just be extra expenses that you could avoid by just taking the train.
 
Just wrapped up interviews for some of the schools here in the city. The schools themselves were great, and I really think the curriculum, programs, and general vibe fits what I am looking for. Literally the only thing I have apprehension about is living here.
Somewhat similar to you I am a lifelong New England guy and moved to NYC for med school despite the city, not because of it. For me it was well worth it; I knew what it was going into it, and yea it really killed me not to be able to drive a couple hours north and find myself in nowhere, VT. That being said, I went to school with the best people I could ask for (the primary reason for my choice) and had an absolute blast. I got over the NYC thing, though I fortunately got to come back to the wintery misery of New England for residency.

Also, not sure which schools they were, but if you have a chance to attend P&S you'd be crazy not to! Best school in the planet, and all the other Manhattan medical schools are garbage ;-)

Check out places in Queens, Brooklyn, The Bronx, Yonkers, and Westchester. To get from Yonkers/Westchester (suburbs) to Manhattan, you'd need a car, but the other three all you'd have to do is hop on the train. Having to pay for a car, parking, insurance, and maintenance would just be extra expenses that you could avoid by just taking the train.
Under no circumstance should you live in the outer boroughs while attending medical school in Manhattan; the only exception is if you're attending Columbia, then you could *conceivably* live in Bronx, Yonkers or Westchester. But you'd miss out on a lot of the experience.
 
I can't imagine housing in the outer boroughs plus the cost of transportation being less than the cost of a dorm room/subsidized apartment on the medical school campus plus the convenience of living close to classmates, labs, etc.

The transit system in NYC is exceptionally strained right now and I can imagine commuting adding a significant amount of stress when trains are delayed or taken out of service or too crowded to board.

Big cities are not for everyone. Wait until the dust settles in April and take things from there.
 
This experience is extremely individual-specific. Some people hate the city as tourists but live there for awhile and end up loving it for the convenience, the constant flux of people and things to do, etc. Some people love the city as tourists but would hate living there as residents. But if you think you'd be miserable going to school in the city, then that's definitely something you should take into consideration. You want to be somewhere where you can be your best and if location affects that, then it's important that you think about it before committing.

At this point, it's still early. Go to the second look weekends and see if you still think that about the city after spending a couple of days there as a pseudo-resident.
 
I can't think of a more exciting place to be and I'm thrilled to have endless opportunities for culture, dining and entertainment when I'm not studying. Contrary to what another poster remarked, the Murray Hill/Kip's Bay area around NYU is not only great from my perspective, but is considered from one source (Niche) to be the BEST place in Manhattan for young professionals to live.
 
@tbonez71 Medical school is stressful enough without hating your surrounding places and people. From the sound of it, you got many interviews. I'd just go somewhere else, even if the school is a bit lower ranked.
 
I can't think of a more exciting place to be and I'm thrilled to have endless opportunities for culture, dining and entertainment when I'm not studying. Contrary to what another poster remarked, the Murray Hill/Kip's Bay area around NYU is not only great from my perspective, but is considered from one source (Niche) to be the BEST place in Manhattan for young professionals to live.
Nice for you man, but OP wasn't looking for why you think NYC is great
 
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Moved to Manhattan from the west coast for UG. I love it, and it loved it the first time I came to check it out. If that isn't your experience...well, you could change your mind over time. But that's gut feeling I'd listen to, personally. Like, if it ends up being your only acceptance I wouldn't skip med school and try again for a more favorable environment, but that seems like a great reason to move a school down a few places on the list.

Edit: I'm seeing the defenses of NYC, and while I agree with them, I'm not sure the city's diversity (which I love) is gonna make up for the claustrophobia and lack of large nature spaces that OP cares about...
 
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Native NYCer here. I can speak to a couple of your concerns.

First of all, people are *not* angry in NYC. I go to college in Boston and I personally think New Englanders are much ruder than NYC people. I always use the analogy "Boston people look behind them and don't hold the door, NYC people are too busy to check behind them in the first place." NYC is wonderful in the sense that everyone is so wrapped up in their world that there is very little judgement allowing everyone to be who they are.

Also, NYC, even Manhattan, is so so so diverse. Even on the subway you have everything from multi-millionaires to the construction guy. I really love this aspect and you can really find who you are and never feel out of place.

Finally, the touristy parts of Manhattan ARE anxiety producing. This is why actual NYC residents never go there. Try walking through the residential/family-oriented parts of the UWS or up near Columbia University (Riverside park is gorgeous this time of year). I really think that even Manhattan can be really quiet if you stay in residential neighborhoods (i.e. NOT the highline/lower east side). Give Manhattan a chance.
 
I'm currently an M2 in NYC. The school is good, but I hate NYC with a passion. I spent most of my life since I moved to this country living upstate so starting medical school was a very big change for me. Unfortunately I have lot of problems with this city in general. Too many to name here but off the top of my head the the things that really bother me are the high cost of living, rude people, terrible conditions for driving/parking, limited freedoms (politically), nosiness and lack of privacy. I like you am and outdoors person as well and find myself with no hobbies whatsoever in this city. Manhattan is probably the worst of the five burrows, but they are all pretty bad IMO. If you end up getting other interviews/acceptances and place a high importance on where you live, I would strongly suggest looking elsewhere.


As a person born and raised in NYC, I agree 100%. Look elsewhere!
 
Native NYCer here. I can speak to a couple of your concerns.

First of all, people are *not* angry in NYC. I go to college in Boston and I personally think New Englanders are much ruder than NYC people. I always use the analogy "Boston people look behind them and don't hold the door, NYC people are too busy to check behind them in the first place." NYC is wonderful in the sense that everyone is so wrapped up in their world that there is very little judgement allowing everyone to be who they are.

Also, NYC, even Manhattan, is so so so diverse. Even on the subway you have everything from multi-millionaires to the construction guy. I really love this aspect and you can really find who you are and never feel out of place.

Finally, the touristy parts of Manhattan ARE anxiety producing. This is why actual NYC residents never go there. Try walking through the residential/family-oriented parts of the UWS or up near Columbia University (Riverside park is gorgeous this time of year). I really think that even Manhattan can be really quiet if you stay in residential neighborhoods (i.e. NOT the highline/lower east side). Give Manhattan a chance.

I'm glad I wasn't the only one to notice this.
 
OP was asking for perspectives. I'm offering the perspective of a happy medical student living in Manhattan.
Perspectives from someone who literally can't think of a more exciting place to be is not a useful perspective. When people struggling in school ask for study habits one does not chime in with "I never need to study I just ace the test"
 
Perspectives from someone who literally can't think of a more exciting place to be is not a useful perspective. When people struggling in school ask for study habits one does not chime in with "I never need to study I just ace the test"

Irrespective of what you or I think of living in Manhattan, it is not a foregone conclusion that the OP would be miserable in Manhattan; first impressions can change. For example, I might actually like you if I got to know you!
 
Moved to Manhattan from the west coast for UG. I love it, and it loved it the first time I came to check it out. If that isn't your experience...well, you could change your mind over time. But that's gut feeling I'd listen to, personally. Like, if it ends up being your only acceptance I wouldn't skip med school and try again for a more favorable environment, but that seems like a great reason to move a school down a few places on the list.

Edit: I'm seeing the defenses of NYC, and while I agree with them, I'm not sure the city's diversity (which I love) is gonna make up for the claustrophobia and lack of large nature spaces that OP cares about...

You guessed correctly.......it won't. I find it quite laughable when people talk about "convenience" in defense of living in this place. Being 5 minutes from nearest supermarket is pretty irrelevant when you have to pay a ridiculous rent to live in a studio apartment the size of a walk in closet (how's that for convenience?) and give up your ability/right to travel independently, own property (i.e. land), firearms, most types of pets.........you get the picture.

And another thing, the diversity of this city is actually a big negative IMO. There is little sense of a common identity, pride, or camaraderie amongst people here. In fact, I think this may contribute to why people are so hostile to each other in general. Hearing people describe it as a "melting pot" sends a shiver down my spine. This city is very highly segregated by race, ethnicity, or national background and it is the furthest thing from a "melting pot" that I have ever seen.
 
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Are you guys really attempting to profile New York City?

It's like countering the "concrete jungle" with a statement like, "Haven't you been to Central Park?" Or arguing that you can get more space on a commute if you take the train around 5 a.m. or choose to live in some Jersey suburb like Palisades Park or some neighborhood nearby Secaucus to take the train into Penn Station.
 
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Native NYCer here too.
NYC is a very fast speed city. People here are generally helpful and there are so many outdoors activities. About the crowd, yes its NYC it is crowded but very very diverse. I would love to stay here in a heartbeat! 😀
 
Damn you guys gave me a lot to think about! Especially the bit about everyone just being wrapped up in themselves and not angry lol. Its obvious that NYC is great for some people, but not necessarily everyone, which I probably fit into. Meeting a lot of the current med students during interviews, none of them really seem to regret moving here even if the transition was hard at first. Can't say I'd end up the same, but there's probably something I could come to enjoy about the city.

What I was worried about was getting put in a position where my only acceptances were from these schools, and I'd be forced to go even if it made me miserable... I had seen one of the ADCOM users here suggest withdrawing before hearing back for cases like these. Though, I think there's enough to enjoy here like the diversity (which I love) and culture that would maybe make it bearable to get through medical school even though my first impression isn't so hot.

I'll probably take @LizzyM and @TheWolfOfMainStreet 's advice and see what happens after I get back some acceptances. I don't mind going to a lower ranked school in a better location, but I'm willing to keep an open mind about Manhattan if it comes down to it.

Actually I should probably just worry about getting my first acceptance for the moment 😛
 
Damn you guys gave me a lot to think about! Especially the bit about everyone just being wrapped up in themselves and not angry lol. Its obvious that NYC is great for some people, but not necessarily everyone, which I probably fit into. Meeting a lot of the current med students during interviews, none of them really seem to regret moving here even if the transition was hard at first. Can't say I'd end up the same, but there's probably something I could come to enjoy about the city.

What I was worried about was getting put in a position where my only acceptances were from these schools, and I'd be forced to go even if it made me miserable... I had seen one of the ADCOM users here suggest withdrawing before hearing back for cases like these. Though, I think there's enough to enjoy here like the diversity (which I love) and culture that would maybe make it bearable to get through medical school even though my first impression isn't so hot.

I'll probably take @LizzyM and @TheWolfOfMainStreet 's advice and see what happens after I get back some acceptances. I don't mind going to a lower ranked school in a better location, but I'm willing to keep an open mind about Manhattan if it comes down to it.

Actually I should probably just worry about getting my first acceptance for the moment 😛
Not going to look at the other acceptances you got (and this post just happened to catch my eye), but, let me tell you, medical school in Manhattan? That'd be damned tempting if this was me ~30+ years ago (was going back and forth between England and US). Especially given the fact I could get the hell out of there in 3-4 years for residency. *Then again, I had no idea I'd end up in the field I'm in back then.
 
I am in the city for fellowship and really love it. It's expensive, and I am not going to stay, but I wouldn't trade the experience for anything. I have found the people to be generally nice, subways easy to use and reliable and I have never felt unsafe.
 
I'm currently an M2 in NYC. The school is good, but I hate NYC with a passion. I spent most of my life since I moved to this country living upstate so starting medical school was a very big change for me. Unfortunately I have lot of problems with this city in general. Too many to name here but off the top of my head the the things that really bother me are the high cost of living, rude, self-absorbed people, terrible conditions for driving/parking, limited freedoms (politically), noisiness and lack of privacy. I like you am and outdoors person as well and find myself with no hobbies whatsoever in this city. Manhattan is probably the worst of the five burrows, but they are all pretty bad IMO. If you end up getting other interviews/acceptances and place a high importance on where you live, I would strongly suggest looking elsewhere.

I've lived in NYC all my life and can concur. It's nice to visit the touristy stuff from time to time, but live there? Nah. Maybe OP should consider living outside the metro area and commute to class instead.
 
I've lived in NYC all my life and can concur. It's nice to visit the touristy stuff from time to time, but live there? Nah. Maybe OP should consider living outside the metro area and commute to class instead.

Commuting is its own kind of hell. I've commuted into Manhattan and I've lived within walking distance of my job in Manhattan and I'll take walking distance any day and the med school's make it affordable for students. The area around your home becomes your neighborhood and you get to know your greengrocer, your bakery or pizza joint, your dry cleaner and so forth and all are within a block or two of home. Each neighborhood is a small town and very different that Times Square or Wall Street.
 
Commuting is its own kind of hell. I've commuted into Manhattan and I've lived within walking distance of my job in Manhattan and I'll take walking distance any day and the med school's make it affordable for students. The area around your home becomes your neighborhood and you get to know your greengrocer, your bakery or pizza joint, your dry cleaner and so forth and all are within a block or two of home. Each neighborhood is a small town and very different that Times Square or Wall Street.
Haven't interviewed or gotten offers in NYC, but having done my research just in case it happens... where exactly is my husband supposed to sleep? Under my twin sized bed as my roommate, also a student, has the other bed? It looks like said "affordable student housing" is mostly dorms.

Some schools have housing for married students, couples, or students with children... but it doesn't look like there are very many of those units available, and not every school offers them. And they're tiny. I don't think my husband and I could live together happily in just a one bedroom apartment, but that's just me.
 
Haven't interviewed or gotten offers in NYC, but having done my research just in case it happens... where exactly is my husband supposed to sleep? Under my twin sized bed as my roommate, also a student, has the other bed?

Some schools have housing for married students, couples, or students with children... but it doesn't look like there are very many of those units available, and not every school offers them. And they're tiny. I don't think my husband and I could live together happily in just a one bedroom apartment, but that's just me.

I was asking some questions to current NYU and Cornell students, and they've mentioned that when couples are involved, they usually get their own separate apartment off-campus. If both go to the same school, they could potentially room together. NYU offers a 2-person suite (common room, 2 'singles') during 1st year, whereas Cornell offers 'singles' with a shared bathroom during 1st year, and an apartment during 2nd-4th year.
 
I was asking some questions to current NYU and Cornell students, and they've mentioned that when couples are involved, they usually get their own separate apartment off-campus. If both go to the same school, they could potentially room together. NYU offers a 2-person suite (common room, 2 'singles') during 1st year, whereas Cornell offers 'singles' with a shared bathroom during 1st year, and an apartment during 2nd-4th year.
My husband isn't a med student, so it's the off campus apartment part that worries me. Does the school help - i.e., can the school front the money/roll the apartment cost into the student loans, or do students have to meet usual income qualifications for the off campus apartments?
 
Commuting is its own kind of hell. I've commuted into Manhattan and I've lived within walking distance of my job in Manhattan and I'll take walking distance any day and the med school's make it affordable for students. The area around your home becomes your neighborhood and you get to know your greengrocer, your bakery or pizza joint, your dry cleaner and so forth and all are within a block or two of home. Each neighborhood is a small town and very different that Times Square or Wall Street.

When you say affordable, how affordable do you mean? Manhattan and affordable are words rarely used in the same sentence.
 
My husband isn't a med student, so it's the off campus apartment part that worries me. Does the school help - i.e., can the school front the money/roll the apartment cost into the student loans, or do students have to meet usual income qualifications for the off campus apartments?

It seemed that couples that decided to go off-campus were on their own with regards to housing. I'm not entirely sure how accommodating the school can get as they already provide subsidized housing, but I think you can likely contact and arrange something that works out in the end (like rolling it into loans).
 
It seemed that couples that decided to go off-campus were on their own with regards to housing. I'm not entirely sure how accommodating the school can get as they already provide subsidized housing, but I think you can likely contact and arrange something that works out in the end (like rolling it into loans).
One can certainly hope. Thanks for your help!
 
When you say affordable, how affordable do you mean? Manhattan and affordable are words rarely used in the same sentence.

Affordable compared to market rates in NYC. Dorm rooms run $800-1300/mo furnished, including utilities.

Schools have some housing for married couples, they don't expect you to share a suite with a roommate and your spouse!

If you couldn't live happily in a one bedroom with your spouse, maybe NYC is not for you.
 
Affordable compared to market rates in NYC. Dorm rooms run $800-1300/mo furnished, including utilities.

Schools have some housing for married couples, they don't expect you to share a suite with a roommate and your spouse!

If you couldn't live happily in a one bedroom with your spouse, maybe NYC is not for you.

Oh wow, that's pretty good actually. Definitely better to stay near the school if one can find dorm rates like that. I retract my suggestion to commute then.
 
Here are thoughts from someone going to med school in manhattan who does not like manhattan.

I've never lived in a big city before, so moving to manhattan was a little bit of a shock. I also found out pretty quickly that I wasn't a big city person. NYC is smelly, dirty, crowded, expensive, cramped, and actually far away from a lot of places with your only travel options being either inconvenient or expensive transportation. I was apprehensive too, so I get where you're coming from.

It's been over 2 years and I'm still not a huge fan of manhattan. That being said, even as someone who doesn't like big cities and particularly isn't a huge fan of NYC, there are redeeming qualities to going to med school here. I can only really speak for my specific school, but I'm sure this holds at least somewhat true at all of the big 4 manhattan schools.

1) the patient population in NYC, particularly at Columbia and NYU (belleview) are going to be some of the sickest patients you can find anywhere. Half of the patients on the medicine floor would be in an ICU at any other hospital, but because you're on the floor, you jump into managing (with plenty of guidance and teaching!) extremely sick patients with a lot of problems right away. Why are they sick? Two reasons. First, all of these hospitals are big tertiary/quaternary referral centers and so the billions of smaller regional hospitals send us their sickest and most complex patients. Second, although NYC has a lot of great public health resources compared to other cities and states (such as emergency medicaid for uninsured people who need to be hospitalized), the overall state of health varies drastically by neighborhood. The patients with the worst social determinants of health will end up at these big academic medical centers and public hospitals (columbia, harlem, belleview, sinai, idk about cornell) and their lifetime of uncontrolled chronic conditions will basically have lead them to having every single one of the complications and you will be the one learning to manage them. It seems daunting, jumping into incredibly difficult patient care right away, but it teaches how to deal with these things very quickly. Is this something you won't find elsewhere? No, you can find this in most big cities, but just because of the staggering population of NYC and the sheer number of people without access to healthcare, you get a very high quantity of very sick people coming into the hospital day in and day out.

2) The NYC hospitals are dysfunctional. Everything about them. They're inefficient, ancillary staff takes forever to do things, the EMR shuts down every other day, if you ever want an MRI you have to order it "Stat" (which now means non-urgent) and then call and make sure the radiology admin assistance actually book your patient, it's hell. But it teaches you to be adaptive and think on your feet. You become not only the physician team, but also will be doing things like blood draws literally every day, placing IVs (service dependent), running to and from labs/blood banks, finding back-alley ways into the EMR. It makes things tough, but it makes you tough as well. If you're looking for a program where you are literally only doing "doctor" stuff and don't want to also be in the trenches mixing it up with the rest of allied personnel and sometimes doing their jobs for them, don't come to NYC. But I think it's a valuable experience, not only because it broadens your skillset going into internship, but because it also helps you understand why some things might take so long to get done and what you can do the expedite things.

3) NYC is an incredibly diverse city, not only in terms of people, but in terms of activity. There are things for literally everyone to do. I'm not going to even try to make a list because it would just be too vast, but if you have a particular thing you're interested in, please ask. This is true for living situations as well. I know med students who live a block from the hospital, a 15 minute subway ride away, in a different borough, and in a different state. It's up to you to prioritize what is important to you, but the nice thing is you have the option to.

4) It's good to see both urban healthcare and non-urban healthcare. At least at Columbia, you have the opportunity to be exposed to both. Most of your core rotations are done in NYC, but you also have the opportunity to do core and elective rotations at Bassett (rural, upstate NY), Stamford (suburban connecticut), Indian Health Service on reservations (rural af NM/Arizona), and Westchester (bougie af suburban NYC). You get a diversity of practice environments which can really help you figure out where you want to do residency and/or practice.

5) All of the big 4 NYC schools are phenomenal and will get you where you need to go, whether that's an NYC residency or an LA residency or a rural Nebraskan residency or anywhere in between. If you really find you don't like living in NYC while in medical school, you aren't stuck here - far from it. 2/3 of our residents match outside of NYC (usually by choice because we're super inbred and nepotistic).

Anyway, sorry for the long post, I don't mean to be down on NYC - it's actually a wonderful city with so many positives, but it's not the right long-term environment for everyone, though for people like me (and maybe you!) it can be good in small doses. Please ask if you have any other questions.
 
The city of course is not for everyone

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Here are thoughts from someone going to med school in manhattan who does not like manhattan.

Your post and insight is absolute gold, exactly what I was hoping for. Thank you!

Your first point is actually one reason I would not mind staying in Manhattan. There is SO much to see from these patients, and they are all coming from different walks of life. I was especially impressed with NYU with Bellevue and the VA being right there (sorry I know it's not your school lol). I really like the fact that most of NYC hospitals are public and see some of the craziest stuff around. But then on top of that the social disparities between neighborhoods becomes evident... Did you find this is exaggerated based on where the clinic you were working was located? Like did moving clinics or hospitals from the east side to the west give you a completely different experience, and was the quality of care consistent or definitely worse in the more under served areas? The schools kept mentioning that they tried to give the best care to everyone even between the "nicer" clinic and the one helping lower SES, but I was somewhat skeptical of this.

Obviously they never advertised the fact of how dysfunctional the hospital systems are at their school, so this is brand new to me. I guess my question here is... Is everyone on the clinical team feeling the same pressure? Like is it just understaffed, poorly organized, bad administrative policies, or what do you think are the issues here? This I want to know more just because I am curious lol.

The diversity of people and patients is obviously amazing, and definitely something I appreciate coming from Cali. This would be something I could look forward to as opposed to going to some of the places in the mid-west. Other than that, I would like to know what you don't like about New York, and how you adapted to that at the beginning. Talking to some of the current medical students, it seems like the transition to this kind of dense city can be pretty overwhelming, but they all seem to get over it after a while and appreciate the experience.

Your post makes me feel MUCH better about giving Manhattan a second shot. I definitely at least see the value in it, since you articulated it so well. And that despite never really liking the city, you found a way to enjoy your time there! Thanks again 😀
 
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Just wrapped up interviews for some of the schools here in the city. The schools themselves were great, and I really think the curriculum, programs, and general vibe fits what I am looking for. Literally the only thing I have apprehension about is living here. Having been checking out the city for about a week (my first time ever), I've tried to get a feel for the place beyond just the touristy stuff...

I have never felt so anxious going around in some place before, everyone seems to be upset all the time. The density of people here is a little overwhelming for me as well, there just doesn't seem to be enough space for everyone. I also love the outdoors which is obviously hard to fulfill living in a concrete jungle. It's been a great visit and I have had a lot of fun treating it like a vacation, though the thought of living here for so long is intimidating and kind of depressing.

For context, I am from the west coast but grew up in some suburbs in New England. Does anyone have some perspective they could give me? Perhaps you were apprehensive about moving to a city you didn't like, I would love to know if it worked out in the end. Basically, I am trying to figure out if this is just a triviality I can overcome by giving it a shot, I don't want to throw a chance at med school down the drain without knowing it was the right choice for me.
Manhattan has its share of quiet areas. They're not gonna be Vermont quiet, but you can live here and avoid the congestion if you pick your spots correctly. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
 
Just wrapped up interviews for some of the schools here in the city. The schools themselves were great, and I really think the curriculum, programs, and general vibe fits what I am looking for. Literally the only thing I have apprehension about is living here. Having been checking out the city for about a week (my first time ever), I've tried to get a feel for the place beyond just the touristy stuff...

I have never felt so anxious going around in some place before, everyone seems to be upset all the time. The density of people here is a little overwhelming for me as well, there just doesn't seem to be enough space for everyone. I also love the outdoors which is obviously hard to fulfill living in a concrete jungle. It's been a great visit and I have had a lot of fun treating it like a vacation, though the thought of living here for so long is intimidating and kind of depressing.

For context, I am from the west coast but grew up in some suburbs in New England. Does anyone have some perspective they could give me? Perhaps you were apprehensive about moving to a city you didn't like, I would love to know if it worked out in the end. Basically, I am trying to figure out if this is just a triviality I can overcome by giving it a shot, I don't want to throw a chance at med school down the drain without knowing it was the right choice for me.

Have you been accepted to any of the ones in NY yet? If not, cross this bridge when you get there.
 
Your post and insight is absolute gold, exactly what I was hoping for. Thank you!

Your first point is actually one reason I would not mind staying in Manhattan. There is SO much to see from these patients, and they are all coming from different walks of life. I was especially impressed with NYU with Bellevue and the VA being right there (sorry I know it's not your school lol). I really like the fact that most of NYC hospitals are public and see some of the craziest stuff around. But then on top of that the social disparities between neighborhoods becomes evident... Did you find this is exaggerated based on where the clinic you were working was located? Like did moving clinics or hospitals from the east side to the west give you a completely different experience, and was the quality of care consistent or definitely worse in the more under served areas? The schools kept mentioning that they tried to give the best care to everyone even between the "nicer" clinic and the one helping lower SES, but I was somewhat skeptical of this.

Most major NYC hospitals are actually not public (NYP, NYU-langone, Sinai, HSS, MSK, etc), but most major public hospitals are affiliated with large academic centers (Bellevue [thanks @Cyberdyne 101], Harlem, others I'm forgetting). However, because of emergency medicaid, patients who are sick will be seen at these hospitals regardless. If they need elective outpatient anything, they have to go to one of the public hospitals, but if they require hospitalization, they can very well end up in one of the big academic centers and under the care of a medical student (happened to me a LOT).

Most of my exposure is on the inpatient side of things. In terms of outpatient, Columbia's ambulatory care network where students and residents rotate is based in Washington Heights and sees uninsured / undocumented patients mostly. I did get to spend a couple of days in an outpatient surgical specialty clinic on the East side that was tangentially affiliated with Columbia and it was very different - solo cash only practice, most patients were very wealthy, no residents, but definitely not a huge part of the care at Columbia (and this was a very very loose affiliation). It's hard to make judgments in quality of care between high and low SES areas because the bulk of my exposure is in low SES patients, but I will say that I've had individual patients who were both SES disadvantaged and not at all SES disadvantaged and they got the same care at least on the inpatient side (obviously social determinants of health is a huge part, but much of that has to do with access to preventative care, which is mostly on the outpatient side). I think that if I were to make an observation, it's that the low SES patients came in generally more sick than the higher SES patients, which speaks to the SDofH issue, but they were all sick enough to be in the hospital regardless, and they were all taken care of by the same medical students, residents, and attendings. There are some private, no-med student patients at Columbia, but they're in the minority (there is a single no-med student floor at CUMC but there are comparatively very few patients there).

Obviously they never advertised the fact of how dysfunctional the hospital systems are at their school, so this is brand new to me. I guess my question here is... Is everyone on the clinical team feeling the same pressure? Like is it just understaffed, poorly organized, bad administrative policies, or what do you think are the issues here? This I want to know more just because I am curious lol.

There's a strong nurses' union in NYC (look around on SDN for better info than I can provide, I know people have posted about it) and there is just such a high burden of disease that people in all healthcare roles are a little overwhelmed. I don't know enough to say if it's an organizational problem, and generally the administrative policies are okay, I think it is just a function of how many sick people there are and how sick these sick people are. For what it's worth, I've never felt like I had to compromise on the care I was providing for my patients, just that I had to work a little harder to get there than perhaps I would in another location, which, you know, is part of the job description anyway.

The diversity of people and patients is obviously amazing, and definitely something I appreciate coming from Cali. This would be something I could look forward to as opposed to going to some of the places in the mid-west. Other than that, I would like to know what you don't like about New York, and how you adapted to that at the beginning. Talking to some of the current medical students, it seems like the transition to this kind of dense city can be pretty overwhelming, but they all seem to get over it after a while and appreciate the experience.

Basically what I said in my first post - it's crowded, dirty, smelly, big, no/few trees, expensive. I don't think I've necessarily "gotten over" those issues, but I've at least come to peace with them. I visited a few other big cities (Philly, DC, Boston, LA, etc), and although many of them have several of these problems, they don't all have all of these problems everywhere. You adapt to the whole "I'm living in the biggest city in the US now and it sure as hell feels like it) pretty quickly because a lot of your classmates have spent at least a portion of their life in the city and help you out, and you're a med student which means you're probably a pretty adaptable person in general, but you also start to think about what qualities are important to you in terms of location. I think the last component is although I did have a few friends from before med school come to NYC, they're either super busy with their own med/law/whatever school or their working 5 billion hours a week so it's difficult to hang out with them on any sort of regular basis, and the vast majority of my close high school / college friends went elsewhere, so while I love my med school friends dearly, I don't have the same "variety" of friendship in NYC that perhaps a lot of other people with more ties to the area do have. The way I've compensated for that is 1) obviously making very close med school friendships and 2) making sure I take time to visit good friends elsewhere or, if they're in the city for some reason or another, making sure I make the effort to spend time with them (for example, I hung out with one of my best college friends the weekend before my surgery shelf because he happened to be in the city).

Your post makes me feel MUCH better about giving Manhattan a second shot. I definitely at least see the value in it, since you articulated it so well. And that despite never really liking the city, you found a way to enjoy your time there! Thanks again 😀

No problem! Post here or PM me with any other questions you might have. Regardless of how you feel about, it's undeniably an experience, and if you're going to spend any time in NYC, your 20s are probably the best time to do it.
 
I grew up in a totally different area of the country and have been living in Manhattan for the last 10 years and I love it. What I'd emphasize is the incredible diversity in neighborhoods Manhattan has. I've lived mostly on the LES and East Village, and I can't stand spending a lot of time in some of the neighborhoods on the island.

I'm not sure what schools you looked at, but the area around NYU isn't great. It's nice enough, but there's no personality and all the tunnel traffic is really gross. The Upper East Side isn't much better. More park space obviously, but super crowded. I liked the area around Columbia but haven't spent a ton of time up there.

There are chiller neighborhoods in Manhattan and definitely a lot in the outer boroughs, but I wouldn't go too far out if I were you. The subway is easy and convenient, but it's way nicer and less stressful being able to walk than deal with annoying delays.

This is an odd comment. Murray Hill and the Upper East side are 2 of the nicest neighborhoods in the city. The UES is arguably one of the fanciest neighborhoods in the entire country. Sure its a little boring but thats all relative when discussing NYC. Murray Hill is much more live than the UES. The area around Columbia med center is one of the worst neighborhoods in the state. If you want to go to sleep with a bunch of screaming hipsters outside your apartment then the east village is perfect for you. Either way, you'd be crazy (or filthy rich) to choose to live in those inexplicably expensive neighborhoods if you had the opportunity to dorm. NYU has very nice dorms. Not sure about columbia but the rent there is very cheap. A bunch of friends of mine rented a huge apartment together and probably spent less than nyu dorming.
OP if you have any Qs for me i am a med student in NY and i live in private housing in the city (moved there from nyc "suburbia"). I was born and raised here. Would be happy to answer anything. @tbonez71
 
I lived in NY for a few years. If you can, living in Brooklyn was much nicer than living in the city. Manhattan has nice areas to live, but they’re really expensive. Honestly, I would never live in NY again, but if I loved the school, I would suck it up. It’s not that bad there, and it has some awesome parts to it.
 
Just wrapped up interviews for some of the schools here in the city. The schools themselves were great, and I really think the curriculum, programs, and general vibe fits what I am looking for. Literally the only thing I have apprehension about is living here. Having been checking out the city for about a week (my first time ever), I've tried to get a feel for the place beyond just the touristy stuff...

I have never felt so anxious going around in some place before, everyone seems to be upset all the time. The density of people here is a little overwhelming for me as well, there just doesn't seem to be enough space for everyone. I also love the outdoors which is obviously hard to fulfill living in a concrete jungle. It's been a great visit and I have had a lot of fun treating it like a vacation, though the thought of living here for so long is intimidating and kind of depressing.

For context, I am from the west coast but grew up in some suburbs in New England. Does anyone have some perspective they could give me? Perhaps you were apprehensive about moving to a city you didn't like, I would love to know if it worked out in the end. Basically, I am trying to figure out if this is just a triviality I can overcome by giving it a shot, I don't want to throw a chance at med school down the drain without knowing it was the right choice for me.
My Uni happens to be in a big city. Whenever I can't deal with the denseness I go out and find the suburbs in the city. You could try Urban Exploration in deserted areas to get a feel for nature in an urban area, you can spend your weekends at coffee shops in the suburbs near Manhattan, if they have any nice mountains or large hills around you can hike.

I have the same problem with feeling overwhelmed in large cities where everyone seems mean and there isn't enough space for each person. Find a friend who lives in a suburb near and try spending time there.
 
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