Maybe a compromise could be Pit=No food.
That's not a compromise.
I think a good compromise would be "I'll let you eat if you promise to sign a waiver first, that says that you won't sue the OB, the anesthesiologist, the nurse, the CNM, the pediatrician, the hospital janitor, NOBODY, if you have a bad outcome that results from your 'hypoglycemia' that prevents you from going 2-3 hours without a snack."
🙄
(Well, maybe not NOBODY - you can sue your doula if you want.)
My other favourite is "Being pregnant isn't an illness". Whilst I agree that this is strictly true - it still has a mortality rate (8.4/100000 women giving birth in Aus), something that almost none of my currently getting pregnant friends have even stopped to think about because pregnancy is "natural" and natural things are all good. 😱
Lay people don't get it. They just don't, because they don't see that many bad outcomes. Bad things happen in pregnancy, but they rarely see it or hear about it. They never hear about the full term IUFDs ("I was at home and I just rolled onto my side and the baby stopped moving! How could this happen?"), or the placental abruptions where the baby never stood a chance, or the triple tight nuchal cords and the baby comes out limp and blue. AFEs, post-partum hemorrhage, PEs....these are things that most expectant mothers who want to "experience their labor"
🙄 just aren't willing to admit exist.
After all, what do most family members ask about? "How much did the baby weigh, was it a boy or a girl, does it have all 10 fingers and toes?" How about, did it aspirate thick meconium? Did it breath spontaneously? Any problems getting the placenta out?
The problem is, most lay people aren't willing to acknowledge the reality that, yes, bad things happen in pregnancy. I don't know if it's fear or ignorance or what, but they just don't.