I find that I can dive in pretty far as long as a I remember that I can find my way back and that my secondary experience is never really as bad as the patients primary experience. In other words, I have coping skills, support systems, cognitive strategies, that I have learned to utilize far better than any of my patients. In fact, that is part of why they come to me, to learn how to manage better so I better know how to do it. Also, I will always remind myself that hearing about childhood sexual abuse or other difficult traumas, a really tough one is parents who have lost a child, but it is not even close to as hard for me as it is for them. Final thought is that if you do this job well, then at the end of a tough week, you should feel exhausted. If every week is tough and you are always exhausted then there is a problem and as mentioned above, good supervision can help you resolve that. I was feeling exhausted much of the time the past few months because I decided to teach a class for fall and the extra workload pushed me right to my limit. So I turned them down when they asked, almost begged even, if I would do it again.