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In an ideal world I'd study physics and go to grad school. In reality its suicide. Science is a joke in America. I'm working towards a career in medicine because it pays well, its stable, and its mildly interesting.
"Follow your dream" is bad advice. Not only is it bad, it's potentially life-destroying advice. This is the real world where bad choices have consequences. Living on $40k/year or having to move cross-country for a job might seem fine when you're 22 years old. But it's crap when you're 32 years old, and unbearable when you're 42 years old.
It's also unbearable when you realize that you despise 90% of your waking hours.