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So, just like it says on the tin - boundary violations. Always reportable under all circumstances no exceptions or do you fall more on the side of 'it depends'? Can all Psychiatrists/Therapists who violate boundaries be considered 'predators' to one degree or another, or is this an experiential fallacy* of sorts (*one patient's own experience of a violation as being predatory influencing other's perception, the harmful shrink trope in film etc)? If not predation, then what leads an otherwise ethical practitioner to engage in boundary violations?
I suppose at this point I should make it abundantly clear that I am not, in any way, shape or form, talking about my Psychiatrist or anything even remotely tied to him or our therapy sessions. The question/topic was inspired by a Psychotherapy forum I occasionally lurk at. One of the members has just experienced a boundary violation by their now ex therapist. Long story short, from what I can gather the therapist has/had been under some possible personal or emotional stress recently, developed feelings for/an attraction towards his patient, the patient admits to having transference feelings of their own, things came to a head about a week or so ago, therapist admitted his feelings to the patient in the midst of what sounds like it was heading towards a fairly passionate embrace, patient broke away, left the office, has since been back to discuss what happened, their report of the therapist's response seems to be a mixture of immature emotional attempts at justification followed by realisation of what they'd done, the patient has now decided to terminate therapy and end all contact with the therapist.
Now the story would probably have ended there, except for the hue and cry from the other members that clearly this therapist is a psychopathic predator who is probably out trawling for his next victim as they speak, and should therefore be metaphorically shot on sight by any means available (report him, bring in the lawyers, blackmail's always an option, etc etc). They've basically just stopped short of gathering pitchfork's and lighting torches.
The thing is though, I find myself disagreeing with them over all. I know what it's like to be predated upon by a Psychiatrist/Therapist who was basically a psychopath, and none of what has been told so far with this story would indicate it's anywhere near to the same thing. To me it sounds like this particular Therapist has obviously made some pretty clear mistakes, and had one heck of a momentary lapse of reason, but not to the point of rousing mob justice and stringing the guy up from the nearest lamp post. Should he undergo some sort of disciplinary action? Yes, in my opinion. Should he be required to complete some sort of intensive counselling course, preferably with someone in a supervisory capability? Yes, in my opinion. Should he be dragged from one arena of discipline to another and have his life and career completely ruined? No, I don't agree with that.
Am I wrong? Should having a 'zero tolerance' policy on boundary violations mean *all* therapists who violate boundaries should be made an example of? Is there any one right answer in a situation like this, or is that a little too much like reductionism?
I've already heard the patient(s) side of things, now I'm interested in hearing the professional's take on the situation.
I suppose at this point I should make it abundantly clear that I am not, in any way, shape or form, talking about my Psychiatrist or anything even remotely tied to him or our therapy sessions. The question/topic was inspired by a Psychotherapy forum I occasionally lurk at. One of the members has just experienced a boundary violation by their now ex therapist. Long story short, from what I can gather the therapist has/had been under some possible personal or emotional stress recently, developed feelings for/an attraction towards his patient, the patient admits to having transference feelings of their own, things came to a head about a week or so ago, therapist admitted his feelings to the patient in the midst of what sounds like it was heading towards a fairly passionate embrace, patient broke away, left the office, has since been back to discuss what happened, their report of the therapist's response seems to be a mixture of immature emotional attempts at justification followed by realisation of what they'd done, the patient has now decided to terminate therapy and end all contact with the therapist.
Now the story would probably have ended there, except for the hue and cry from the other members that clearly this therapist is a psychopathic predator who is probably out trawling for his next victim as they speak, and should therefore be metaphorically shot on sight by any means available (report him, bring in the lawyers, blackmail's always an option, etc etc). They've basically just stopped short of gathering pitchfork's and lighting torches.
The thing is though, I find myself disagreeing with them over all. I know what it's like to be predated upon by a Psychiatrist/Therapist who was basically a psychopath, and none of what has been told so far with this story would indicate it's anywhere near to the same thing. To me it sounds like this particular Therapist has obviously made some pretty clear mistakes, and had one heck of a momentary lapse of reason, but not to the point of rousing mob justice and stringing the guy up from the nearest lamp post. Should he undergo some sort of disciplinary action? Yes, in my opinion. Should he be required to complete some sort of intensive counselling course, preferably with someone in a supervisory capability? Yes, in my opinion. Should he be dragged from one arena of discipline to another and have his life and career completely ruined? No, I don't agree with that.
Am I wrong? Should having a 'zero tolerance' policy on boundary violations mean *all* therapists who violate boundaries should be made an example of? Is there any one right answer in a situation like this, or is that a little too much like reductionism?
I've already heard the patient(s) side of things, now I'm interested in hearing the professional's take on the situation.