Actually, you were very inconsiderate and just assumed you knew the exact situation of anyone that has an F on their transcript.
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I'm sorry your feelings were hurt, it think. You must be his wife?
The reality is, what is forgotten a lot around here, we're talking about medical school... something you truly know nothing about until you've been there. So, people come here to get advice because the application process and experiences are unique, sometimes guidance is useful... that is when the questions are.
Now our friend or your spouse I'm not sure. One of two things will happen as the result of my comment. First, he may get angry, have hurt feelings like you, then reflect, turn his grades around and make a real go of things which will be necessary to get into even the worst programs. Wait let me back up...
Take Goro's comment for example, he was very reserved with his response because he knows if this is an isolated situation ok, but if it isn't, this kids probably never going to cut it. To go from A to F would require a very bad accident and reasonable, future medical school types would likely have someone communicate with the school, they no doubt have a process for such unfortunate events, like withdrawing from the semester which is easy to explain, might even be a great PS topic. On the other hand, this isn't an isolated event and we're talking about marginal performance at best in the first and second years of college, which is when you take calculus I. People like Goro would either pass the post by completely not wasting their time or they post a boilerplate response not wasting too much time, in Goro's case you'd likely get the reinvent yourself message.
Back to my comment... turn himself around, maybe the experience gives him some insight that whatever the reason F's are simply inexcusable, it is far too easy to get a C in undergrad for virtually no work at all. He takes the advice for what it is, a legitimate comment that these types of things can't continue to happen or he'll need to change his plans.
Or, second, he gets his feelings hurt like you and he thinks to himself what does that joker know, I'm Rick James, he'll wait for someone like you to come along and reinforce his lackluster college career. The two of you will drink on weekends and flip burgers during the week happy as a lark taking public transportation to and from your weed dealers house... or worse, he keeps trying the way he has, only to be an unsuccessful three time applicant who truly has problems settling for a career he really doesn't like for 20 years.
Now it is likely, if you've taken the time to read all this you still won't get what I'm saying, you're too wound up in emotions and tone is more important than substance and you'll go on about your life like you always have. I'll wonder what non-profit you'll eventually work for making nothing getting sexually harassed by your boss for years and years, but most I'll wonder why did they even ask if they didn't want a real answer. Or, you'll read what I'm saying and you'll realize OP is at a fork in the road, there's only a hard way and a less hard way, I wonder which way he will choose.