...I think they are willing to pay a little less and give me ten extra days off per year. It obviously doesn't have the greatest vacation package available but I don't care. I need a job, they are most likely going to hire me. End of story. I am sick of speaking to endless recruiters telling them what I want only to be offered the exact opposite.
Have you asked them for more vacation time without less pay? Seriously, I would just ask them. Its a negotiation. Just ask if they will give you more vacation time, don't mention decreasing your salary. If they say they'd have to pay you less, then you're no worse off than now. Seriously, they're getting you cheap. 10 extra paid days off is honestly something they'd probably agree to if you just asked. I get that you're burnt out, but you have very little to lose by just asking for extra time off with the same pay.
It should not be a surprise and should not be viewed as them "accommodating" you by paying you less for extra PTO. They're essentially offering you the same job in a slightly different way.
I really think some perspective is necessary here. This is somewhat unrelated, but just to give you an idea of how places take advantage of physicians who feel they
shouldn't/can't negotiate. A family member retired from a physician job because they were downsizing by attrition, and just making the remaining staff absorb the extra work. They were burnt out and close to retirement anyway. So they retired... for 1.5 yrs.
They got bored, the department reached out to them and offered them to do part-time/locums. She checked the offer, it was essentially what she was being paid before and figured it was fine, didn't ask for more. Approaching credentialing and everything, she got cold feet, got a bad feeling and ended up backing out. Less than a month later, they're calling her constantly trying to work something out. They ended up offering her literally
DOUBLE what they offered before. I'm talking literally the difference between $4000/wk and $8000/wk (<40 hr/wk job). Turns out, that higher pay is the higher end of what they
typically pay locums people, so it turn out she's still within what is reasonable for them.
She ended up taking the higher amount, and I would argue they're finally paying her a reasonable salary. If she had not "had a bad feeling" they would have gotten her for half of what she's worth. That's how these things work. Sure, the pay may be good compared to what you're used to, but I'm telling you, to them, they're probably getting you for a steal. The least they can do is give you some extra vacation days.