Just a VERY little about my situation. My wife and I bought a house 3 years ago, before the market tanked. I will be starting medical school in the fall, so our income will drop to nearly nothing. We put $5000 into our home to try and make it more attractive to potential buyers, and were willing to walk away from the home allowing interested buyers to simply take over payments, meaning we'd sacrifice our down payment to get out of the house. We tried for a year to sell and never even received a single offer.
My primary interest is in the Army National Guard program, and I know on the application it asks if you are (or ever have been) 90+ days behind on payments. We've fought to keep the house, but foreclosure appears to be practically the only thing we can do at this point.
Would having a foreclosure prevent me from joining the military? Thanks!
I'm sorry you're having to go through this.
I find it interesting to see people blame others or "the market" for their financial issues. You overpaid for a house. Then you tried to sell it for more than it was worth. While it may seem gracious to you to "sacrifice your down payment", in reality, that was already gone by that time whether you wanted to sacrifice it or not. Any home can sell if you drop the price low enough. You clearly weren't willing to sell at market value. That's your choice, but if you aren't willing to sell you have to make the payments.
You also apparently got into a home without an income secure enough to make future payments. I assume you were considering going to medical school or something 3 years ago since you're now looking at the national guard program. People who are students or are planning to be students in the near future probably aren't in a secure enough position to be buying a home, especially in the middle of a housing bubble (don't kid me that you never heard that term in 2006, San Diego had already been going downhill for a year by then and most of the rest of the country was peaking that summer. I bought a house that year and was very aware of the bubblicious nature of housing.)
Everyone seems to be a victim these days. This is absolutely nothing personal against you, because I hear the phrases you're using every day in real life and on the internet and everyone nods their head and agrees, "Yeah, you got screwed." Well, I disagree. Don't buy a house without 20% down. Don't buy a house you're not going to be in for a long time. Don't buy a house without the means to make payments on it for a long time. Don't pay more than a house is worth. Not sure how much it's worth? How much would it cost to rebuild it? How much can it be rented for? If the rent isn't anywhere near covering a mortgage for 80% of its value, you've got to consider that maybe you're paying too much.
Sure, some people truly had something unfortunate happen to them. They were laid off and unable to get a job for a long time, or disabled and their disability insurance refused to cover them, or their spouse ran off on them or whatever. But it seems like most people just made a few bad financial decisions, spurred on by unethical realtors and mortgage brokers. Common bad financial decisions:
1) Putting nothing down
2) Buying a house when only planning to be in it a few years
3) Buying a house without being established in a career
4) Running up a bunch of consumer debt
5) Buying a house without adequate life/disability/liability coverage
6) Buying too much house
What the heck was ever wrong with renting? Something goes wrong, you walk away, lose a couple hundred bucks deposit, and go live in an apartment for a while while you reboot.
Anyway, rant over. And of course nothing personal toward you, just some general observations about dozens of similar situations I have heard about. Good luck with your career goals and starting over financially. Better to make big financial mistakes when you're young. I doubt this little thing would keep you out of military medicine.