I've always thought OB/Gyn makes you a better well-rounded doctor even if you never want to deliver a baby again.
I am a FP attending and it would take quite some time to detail the multiple flaws in your assertion. Simply, assuming one does not wish to include OB in one's practice, there are far more relevant areas of medicine that are of greater import. Devoting the precious and limited time during residency to disciplines such as dermatology, basic orthopedics, further training in various sub-specialties (and, yes, office gyne procedures) would be far more valuable to producing a "well-rounded doctor" than what amounts to terminal involvement in OB. Believe me, if you want to practice FP w/o OB, erudition in these will be FAR more important.
1. OB helps you understand Peds
Only neonatal. It sure doesn't help with the most common presentations of adolescence (unless you intend on managing teenage pregnancies).
2. OB makes you conscience of medications you prescribe to young women
You absolutely do NOT need to be actively practicing OB in order to be conscious of appropriate prescribing practices for young women.
3. Gyn is part of every differential diagnosis
EVERY DD? Not quite.
4. Gyn is a common complaint in the outpatient setting
Yes it can be, and it doesn't require that you parctice OB.
5. A good doctor-patient relationship (in my opinion) is more important of a gateway to seeing Peds than the label of being a Peds.
I don't get your point here at all.
6. You will lose a large population of patients (women) if you are not sensitive to their needs
Again, this does not by any means need that you need to be practicing, or extensively trained in, OB (ie knowledge of gyne doesn't necessitate extensive OB training). One should have sensitivity and empathy for ALL patients!
7. At my program, you can practice your suture skills in C-sections
You can also practice suturing in many, many venues to your heart's content without going near a C/S.
8. At my program, OB/Gyn helps your pelvic and abdominal physical exam.
You can practice these with gyne and stay clear of OB.
9. OB is gateway to obtaining ultrasound skills which is the ultimate outpatient, real-time, non-invasive radiologic tool. Get comfortable with ultrasound and you can use it on other parts of the body.
This is clearly without any sense of the "real world". Certification in U/S is highly specific and, if used inappropriately, can lead you down a litigation-strewn road.
10. You can provide prenatal care to your patient while that patient finds an OB/Gyn with whom they can get along.
While this is true, how long should that take? Two visits??
11. Strong FP programs that have strong OB experiences opens doors to faculty positions, Community Health Centers, rural/remote/international work.
This is an exaggeration at best. One can find plenty of work in all the environments listed w/o OB. There are a few faculty positions that seek OB-interested FPs. However, they usually strongly prefer those with OB fellowship training.
12. Comfort with OB will make you fearless in the ER, Urgent Care, or a long flight with a pregnant woman.
These are sensationalist and dramatic assertions. While one would feel more comfortable with pregnant patients presenting urgently, "fearless" is a foolhardy term.
13. Most importantly, OB experience helps YOU be a better husband/father and a better wife/mother.
Huh? If one has the components of becoming any one of these, it shouldn't take OB training to be "better".