These are things we don't think about when young. Old Timer & I disagree on malpractice insurance & personally, I don't rely on employer's disability or life insurance either. Why? Because its tied to your job. If you don't have that job, you can't get the equivalent insurance if something bad befalls you.
An example....drsdn had a brain tumor at the age of 34. He recovered & is fine, but that one medical incident makes him completely uninsurable. Yep - no life, no disability, no health. He can't buy any of them at all thru anybody - independents, catastrophic, the dental associations.. We know - we've tried for 20 years. What disability & life insurance he had at the time is all he has now & we were young, so it wasn't much. I would have been in a bad way if he had become disabled or god-forbid had died. I would never have been able to educate my kids & live the way I do today. But, I was able to buy disability & life insurance & put him on as a spouse, but only up to a certain coverage limit. Beyond that, it required a physical, which he can't pass because of his brain surgery hx.
Now that we have mandated health portability (for about 15 years), I can go to any job & get him health insurance. Before that, even if I had employer purchased health insurance, anything to do with his head or cns was excluded. Fortunately, that is no longer allowed by law.
So - I'm not the sole or even the major breadwinner in the house. But, all of our insurance (other than the very little amounts we had purchased for him when we were young) are through me. So, I'd agree with all - buy your own disability, life & health. You just never know what's ahead.
When he starts to get out of line, I remind him to be grateful
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