Cardsfan said:
My appolagies for the first post, I never realized how offensive vague questions could be 😉
Anyway, I guess my specific questions are:
Is it necesary to apply to more programs than normally?
How hard is it to match both people into the same department?
Do interviews get sceduled on the same day?
Do people that couple's match have to go lower on their rank list.
What departmens are more receptive?
Anyway, I hope this is "more focused" and would welcome any input.
I've already read about the logistics of the process, just wondering how it actually worked out for real people.
Thanks
IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON SPECIALTY.
I went through a couples match with me doing a non-competitive specialty (int med) at competitive locations, and my partner doing one of the most competitive surgical subspecialties imaginable. We preferred to be at the same institution, but we would take (and got) same city, or even very nearby cities.
If you are in a position like I was, you will have to do MANY more interviews. I did 23 for internal med which would be ridiculous for a single doing int med. We had to apply geographically very broadly since my partner's specialty did not have many programs. In order to line up my programs geographically, I had to plan an interview schedule months in advance by finding out which days people were planning to offer interviews and "saving" the days for them (this was the only way I was able to do the Bay area in two days). My partner's specialty sends out interview offers in late November and December, while I was done hearing from internal med in late November. This meant I went on a few interviews early while we were still waiting for my partner to hear; sometimes this worked, and the internal med pd would call her program and she would get an interview; other times, I ended up taking a [expensive] trip for no reason (e.g. said trip to the Bay area). There was one interview when we were in the same city for one night and shared a hotel room. One!
Internal medicine departments were on the whole very interested in my situation and very willing to offer help or at least sympathy. One of the things I love about the program where I landed was that the pd said that they'd love to have me but it's more important that we couples match in the same city because we wouldn't be happy separately. (And we are absolutely so happy that we won't have to be apart.) The surgical subspecialties didn't really care at all about our couples match either way, it seemed. We did our best to portray me as a non-issue so I wouldn't be seen as a negative.
In making our rank list, I just made absolutely sure there were no programs on the list for me that I wouldn't be happy with. That is the only way to do it. It doesn't make sense to try and cheat the process by ranking as solo applicants because at the bottom of your couples rank list you can list every combination of all your programs in different geographic areas to make sure you match. We also had a lengthy "no match" section to get our back.
So in the end, we matched, but it was not easy. Now, did we go down lower on our list than other people would have? Well, I did. My position was determined in very large part by where my partner landed on her list. Of course, in this crazy process, I ended up ranking fairly low down a program that I loved and would have ranked very very highly as a solo applicant - and I got it. Go figure. Did my partner go lower on her list because of me? We will never know. I made sure that I had backups for the more competitive programs in the same city so hopefully I didn't keep her out of any programs.
It sounds like you are more interested in the couples match for two people doing the same specialty? I know a terrific couple who matched together at a insanely competitive program, and I saw them together at a few interviews. They were able to do many, but not all interviews together. Just spend more up front with your ERAS and don't be afraid to ask about your partner if one of you gets an interview (at least if you're doing int med). It pays to be bold.
Anyway, the bottom line is It Depends. It depends on what specialties, how competitive you are, how competitive your partner is, whether you set any geographic restrictions. In the end, it was all worth it.