I really appreciate your input and I will seek more professional help. In my limited knowledge as a single sole prop these are what i plan to contribute to over the next few years:
1. Maximizing sep IRA
2. maxing out HSA contribution i think 3600
3. maybe a traditional IRA for 5500 but it won't be tax deductible since i am over the threshold
4. defined benefit/defined contribution plan: I looked into this and it doesn't seem like for someone in early 30s it makes a lot of sense since your capped at the amount that can accumulate.
5. the rest of whatever i have left over probably will go into the stock market with a combo of index funds and small percent of bonds etc.
6. 12-18 months of an emergency fund that can cover my current living expenses which essentially would double as my checking account staying always at a certain balance
any major things i am missing out on or does that seem like a fairly reasonable retirement strategy?
1) Some of this is going to be a learning process. Your initial plan is fine. Once you get some wealth going, more options open up. And you're probably coming into the market at an awesome time, if you don't panic.
2) You might want to educated yourself about:
a."lazy portfolios" especially with vanguard instruments.
b. the difference between defined benefit and defined contribution plans. because people will try to sell you crap
c. learn about life insurance vehicles, BUT DON'T DO IT.
3) No matter how you feel, you should absolutely talk to an attorney about asset protection. Maybe this means you create an LLC, maybe this means you need a prenup, maybe you need to get a loved one's SSN so you can assign someone for payable on death accounts in your early stages of acquisition, maybe it means you need to consider how your house is financed so you don't lose it in a med mal suit. Keep in mind that prenups have an expiration in some states.
4) If you want kids, or your intended is in school, and you live in an applicable state, you could look into 529s.
5) Look into when any children you have can start working, and how you can pay directly into their roths.