Had similar experience, although the physician I was shadowing asked if any of my friends is sugar-babying. I tend to take a very liberal mindset to these things and don't think there is anything wrong with it as long as both parties have a mutual understanding and are happy. I still work with the person and I don't feel uncomfortable or anything.
Just appreciating the username in the context of a sugar baby
Eh, technically a sugar baby isn't getting paid to provide a service. Sugaring should be a form of companionship, in which the benefactor offers financial support and spoiling. But I won't sit here and act like there isn't an overlap. It's very easy to fall into arrangements that are just about meeting up for sex, getting your cash, and parting ways until the next time. Respect to the girls that do it, but that doesn't work for me. I've accompanied my SD on trips, gone out for dinner, spent the night watching cartoons, gone on hikes, gone shopping, gone for couples massages etc. He knows about my dreams to practice medicine and he loves that I'm working toward a career goal. We also have awesome sex.
Do you feel satisfied emotionally with such an arrangement? I find most people my age are whining about not being in love/finding someone. I sometimes wish someone wealthy would spontaneously fall in love with me, but never the sugar thing, I'd get attached. That being said, I went to an undergrad filled with students from very wealthy backgrounds and it's definitely a thing, even between students. I know one girl who is dating a GS guy officially but then sees another guy I know discreetly. And then many of the girls that I know keep talking about how they "want a thirty year old."
I ain't gay but 50$ is 50$....I have a question:
Where can I find me one?
Is 30 young or old? lol.
Welp, you'd have to ask them for a real answer. But the tea is most of them are actually already married. At the core of it, most are bored, craving affection/ attention, and want the fantasy of the young hot chick they couldn't get when they were younger because they weren't as rich and successful as they are now. They realize money is power, and it buys them the convenience of a no-string attached arrangement. Men who want to be sugar daddies don't view what they're doing as "dumping" money if they like their sugar baby.
There are genuine sites and apps for it. And yes, there are real sugar daddies and babies on these sites... it's just a matter of sorting through the fakes and the scams to find them.I have a question:
Where can I find me one?
No, I'm not emotionally satisfied. But it's what works for now, as I don't have the emotional energy for a relationship. In the long run, it has probably jaded my perception of love and relationships. If you know you're a romantic who longs for commitment and deep connections, don't sugar.
I've noticed just being older and being in a profession that makes good money pretty much does that. When I was 18 I used to think "man how do these dorky 30 year olds get with these hot 22-24 year olds?"
The only difference is the prostitute has admitted to themselves they are a prostitute
My dad always jokes that rich guys are idiots for cheating with young single ladies because the rich guy always has sooooooo much more to lose. Tiger woods lost $500million because he slept with a bunch of low profile porn folks and waitresses, none of them had $500million walk out the door with that story
True. In Europe they have prostitutes that are like "rent a girlfriends". They cook for you, clean, show you around, and ofcourse sleep with you on a weekly basis. Its still prostitution.
