how do you cope with the application process?

This forum made possible through the generous support of SDN members, donors, and sponsors. Thank you.

gsrimport

Senior Member
20+ Year Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2004
Messages
184
Reaction score
1
Points
75
Advertisement - Members don't see this ad
For those who have experienced the long medical process, how did you cope with the waiting time and the stress?

I am waiting to hear decisions from schools that I interviewed with and I am getting freaked out by it. Their decision determines my future and I never had so much on the line before. I am stressing and have trouble concentrating at school.
 
gsrimport said:
For those who have experienced the long medical process, how did you cope with the waiting time and the stress?

I am waiting to hear decisions from schools that I interviewed with and I am getting freaked out by it. Their decision determines my future and I never had so much on the line before. I am stressing and have trouble concentrating at school.

There are a lot of little coping techniques I've amassed over the process. They don't always work, as the anxiety sometimes gets the best of me, but making an attempt is always worth a shot. Here's my list:

1. Exercise at least twice a week (though three times a week is better, and every day is optimal (for me)). I find I feel much better after a good workout, and it helps clear my mind. Spending an hour a day at the gym is wonderful because it's time to focus on yourself, your body, and your own thoughts. Don't overextend yourself, but push yourself hard enough to make it worthwhile. I like to alternate cardio/weights days with yoga days.

2. Spend as much time as possible with friends. They are good at distracting me, making me laugh, letting me vent when I need to, forcing me to concentrate on work (study groups are an excellent way to get your mind off the application process - when you're in a small group of people, you really have to focus on the material at hand) and just being in the room to stop focusing on my crap and realize that there are other important things in life.

3. Drink tea (especially herbal). It's calming and soothing.

4. Get away from the computer! Force yourself not to read this site for a while...it's less stressful when it's not present.

5. If you can, try reading an absorbing book or magazine that has nothing to do with science or the medical world. Just block it all out for as long as possible. Other options: do an absorbing activity you enjoy (for me, it can be the NY Times crossword puzzle, a particularly challenging new recipe, some mindless shopping, etc).

6. Vent. Don't keep it all bottled up inside; you'll feel a lot less anxious after you share your worries and thoughts with someone.
 
Good techniques, but really you should just chill out right now. When you get to med school you will be twice as stressed as you are now. So try and enjoy life.

BMW-



Karine04 said:
There are a lot of little coping techniques I've amassed over the process. They don't always work, as the anxiety sometimes gets the best of me, but making an attempt is always worth a shot. Here's my list:

1. Exercise at least twice a week (though three times a week is better, and every day is optimal (for me)). I find I feel much better after a good workout, and it helps clear my mind. Spending an hour a day at the gym is wonderful because it's time to focus on yourself, your body, and your own thoughts. Don't overextend yourself, but push yourself hard enough to make it worthwhile. I like to alternate cardio/weights days with yoga days.

2. Spend as much time as possible with friends. They are good at distracting me, making me laugh, letting me vent when I need to, forcing me to concentrate on work (study groups are an excellent way to get your mind off the application process - when you're in a small group of people, you really have to focus on the material at hand) and just being in the room to stop focusing on my crap and realize that there are other important things in life.

3. Drink tea (especially herbal). It's calming and soothing.

4. Get away from the computer! Force yourself not to read this site for a while...it's less stressful when it's not present.

5. If you can, try reading an absorbing book or magazine that has nothing to do with science or the medical world. Just block it all out for as long as possible. Other options: do an absorbing activity you enjoy (for me, it can be the NY Times crossword puzzle, a particularly challenging new recipe, some mindless shopping, etc).

6. Vent. Don't keep it all bottled up inside; you'll feel a lot less anxious after you share your worries and thoughts with someone.
 
Karine04 said:
3. Drink tea (especially herbal). It's calming and soothing.

I think she meant to say drink beer 🙂 Seriously though, work hard in school, bust your ass and make money. It will fall into place. At this point, you have NO control. The money you make now and save is going to be money you are glad you bothered to earn come time for school.

I figure if I put 15k of my own cash in this fall, that's 15k less I have to pay back 🙂
 
gsrimport said:
For those who have experienced the long medical process, how did you cope with the waiting time and the stress?

I am waiting to hear decisions from schools that I interviewed with and I am getting freaked out by it. Their decision determines my future and I never had so much on the line before. I am stressing and have trouble concentrating at school.

distract yourself & enjoy life

forget about medical school for a while

try sports, alcohol, & women if that doesn't work
 
Buckeye(OH) said:
I think she meant to say drink beer 🙂

Beer is good, too! Definitely party, watch stupid movies, dance, go out, have a good time. Oh yes, and work hard too 😉
 
gsrimport said:
For those who have experienced the long medical process, how did you cope with the waiting time and the stress?

I am waiting to hear decisions from schools that I interviewed with and I am getting freaked out by it. Their decision determines my future and I never had so much on the line before. I am stressing and have trouble concentrating at school.
LEXAPRO!!!!! no j/k you really just need to continue doing what you always do. At this point you have done everything possible and you can do nothing but sit back and wait.
 
"I figure if I put 15k of my own cash in this fall, that's 15k less I have to pay back "
__________________

take that 15K and do something really cool...you will make 15K in a month as a physcian...besides whats 250K vs 265K? Memories will last you long into the wee hours of the night when you are memorizing physical exam skills. good luck
 
mcandy said:
"I figure if I put 15k of my own cash in this fall, that's 15k less I have to pay back "
__________________

take that 15K and do something really cool...you will make 15K in a month as a physcian...besides whats 250K vs 265K? Memories will last you long into the wee hours of the night when you are memorizing physical exam skills. good luck

I'm going to Italy, France, and Alaska. Those trips aren't included in the 15k.
 
go on vacation or just consume alot of ch2ch2oh
 
Advertisement - Members don't see this ad
Focus and work on your plan to improve your application for next year in case you are not accepted. That would be the most proactive way to pass the time.
 
I either lost myself into the pages of a book on existentialism or took off for a trail run into the endless horizon of the Nevada desert (usually losing myself in my thoughts and then the realizing that I was actually lost again - this usually ripped me back to reality. Although, now that I think about it, coping with the application process with a dose of an existential crisis probably isn't all that sane.

quote of the moment:

Be mad and tell us what is behind the veil of sanity...because madness is the only means. (Kahlil Gibran)
 
medtraveler said:
I either lost myself into the pages of a book on existentialism or took off for a trail run into the endless horizon of the Nevada desert (usually losing myself in my thoughts and then the realizing that I was actually lost again - this usually ripped me back to reality. Although, now that I think about it, coping with the application process with a dose of an existential crisis probably isn't all that sane.

quote of the moment:

Be mad and tell us what is behind the veil of sanity...because madness is the only means. (Kahlil Gibran)

Hey Medtraveler, Gibran has some great quotations! Lots of them can be used for medicine.

BTW.. yes.. ch3-ch2-OH... don't take the ch2-ch2-OH That double bond will FUnk You out.
 
Sex lots of sex 👍
 
Thanks for all your responses. It was good advice. I really do appreciate it. I had been waitlisted at one school already and have to hear from another one. I know waitlist positions can hold until the day before classes. Do you think that it would matter if I retake the MCAT in april and summit the scores?
 
Top Bottom