Q:1)Ok, so you are saying that
Bigger atom = easier to lose electron = more chance of becoming + charge = more acidic
thus bigger atom = weak base, right?
A: Right
but I read from other thread saying
"Since N is less electronegative than O, it is more willing to give up the electron -> stronger base -> better nucleophile for Sn2."
If N is more willing to give up the electron, it has more chance of becoming + charge so shouldn't it be weak base instead of stronger base unlike that person stated?
A: No, because N is less electronegative than O it cannot hold electrons as well as O, so therefore this person is right the electrons on the O will be more stable then the electrons on the nitrogen, meaning N is more reactive than O being a stronger Base. That guy was right
and my textbook says "order of basicity"
RO- > HO- > RCO2 - > ROH > H2O
which of the rule that you guys said apply to confirm this order?
Remember Stability? Resonance is more stable than size and size is more stable than inductive forces
Resonance>Size> Inductive:
So RO- is the least stable because it is stablized only by inductive and has a full negative charge (-1) same goes for OH-, you could say they are about the same..
next more stable less basic..RCO2 stabalized by resonance a little better than before but still 1 full negative charge but u can consider it as a .5 charge because there are 2 oxygens that contain the electron density...Next..Nuetral!! ROH no full charges only partial positve on H and partial negative on O..considered weak...same for water.. the last two are stable and happy where they are and dont want to to really further react..unless introduced to a significant opposite charge.