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I applied to 9 medical schools last year. I am the only child of a single mom, and my mom became sick last year. Due to stress and doubt, I withdrew my applications. My mom's health has not improved since, and it has caused me to see my future differently. Being there for her is the most important thing for me now. I can't imagine moving more than a few hours away from her at this time. My mother is 63 years old. She works a full-time retail job making minimum wage. I want the next 10, 15, 20 years to be great for her. She doesn't have time to socialize much. She has 2 friends and no family besides me.
Now I am a trying to decide between PA and MD/DO. My biggest reason to not choose medical school is residency. I know you can't always choose where you do your residency. I also understand that even if I was close to my mom's town, I would still be very busy. I also want to earn money sooner so I can take my mom on fun trips, as she hasn't left the country in 26 years, and she hasn't taken a vacation in 8 years.
I hope this doesn't come off as weak or that I'm making excuses. I just really want to be present with my mom for the next 20ish years.
So my question to residents is: How often do you see your parents, or how often could you see your parents if you wanted to?
I applied to 9 medical schools last year. I am the only child of a single mom, and my mom became sick last year. Due to stress and doubt, I withdrew my applications. My mom's health has not improved since, and it has caused me to see my future differently. Being there for her is the most important thing for me now. I can't imagine moving more than a few hours away from her at this time. My mother is 63 years old. She works a full-time retail job making minimum wage. I want the next 10, 15, 20 years to be great for her. She doesn't have time to socialize much. She has 2 friends and no family besides me.
Now I am a trying to decide between PA and MD/DO. My biggest reason to not choose medical school is residency. I know you can't always choose where you do your residency. I also understand that even if I was close to my mom's town, I would still be very busy. I also want to earn money sooner so I can take my mom on fun trips, as she hasn't left the country in 26 years, and she hasn't taken a vacation in 8 years.
I hope this doesn't come off as weak or that I'm making excuses. I just really want to be present with my mom for the next 20ish years.
So my question to residents is: How often do you see your parents, or how often could you see your parents if you wanted to?
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