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I am making this post because such patients always leave an impression on me.
Patient
In the ED or FM clinic, I have always had patients who twist my words or lie to my face or make demands that do not make sense. I have seen my attendings, nurses and consultants have such difficult patients, but they seem to brush them off, I however tend to get frazzled by this. It almost feels taboo as an intern to discuss such a problem with my seniors and felt it better to discuss this in a confidential setting such as this.
I will tell you my story with one such patient today in the ED, elderly female comes in by EMS to the clinic, patient has a hx of HTN and her BP was elevated, with some non-specific ekg changes and fatigue for the last two weeks that had PCP worried about possible ACS. It isn't unusual story and the workup I have down pat (L of Saline, Tropsx2, ekg, UA, CBC and CMP), I informed my attending after the workup was started and everything was going fine. Patient is hard of hearing, so I raise my voice in an effort to communicate with her and she asks me to remove my mask so she can perhaps articulate my words from my lips (I am assuming this is the meaning behind this odd request).
My attending drops in and sees the patient and comes back. He tells me, she reported that she has been feeling woozy lately, I should throw in a non-con Brain CT. I do that and in about 15 minute, the whole story takes a downwards turn. I have one of the ER nurses come to find me to tell me, the patient is angry, she is removing her IV and she wants to go home.
I go see the Patient, she tells me my attending said she could go home. I try to reason with her, that she gave my attending a history of dizziness and that plus her recent fatigue would be better for her to be evaluated with a CT scan. She is angry and not ready to listen. She denies having shared any such information, she tells me what she meant was she felt dizzy like a week back when this episode started. So I use that as a way to try and convince her for a CT scan. She refuses, patient is adamant. I go to my attending and inform him of the plan.
Attending says go ahead and discharge her. She changes her mind, begins asking me what was wrong with her, I tell her, she again request me to take off my mask. I am trying to convince her to stay, her BP is high, we can give her BP meds. She is still confrontational about dizziness and the Head CT, reports she should not need one now as she doesn't have any sxs. She is threatening to remove her IV and leave. in the meantime, I approach my attending several times about input and possible recommendations for the patient. Eventually, there is a shift change of nurses a new nurse comes in. I am grateful to her as she rescues me from this situation and convinces her to stay for the second set of troponin and the CT scan.
Such an interaction isn't new to me like I have said. As a fourth year, during my SUB-I I have observed several interns, residents and attendings with such patients.
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A day or so ago, I had another patient, for a infected panc. pseudocyst, I finished my workup and set everything up. However, the patient reports he wants to leave AMA and have the I&D procedure done at his Hometown hospital. I try to convince him, but, he is adamant and wants me to speak to his GI/Surgeon doctor.
I offer to do so, however,2 to covid, they are closed and not doing any procedures either. as he is still adamant to leave AMA, I have got that paperwork set up, he then asks me "Do you know what will happen to insurance payment? Will I have to pay more because I am leaving ama. I politely inform him that insurance payments in AMA situations isn't my expertise. I instruct him to call insurance company as they usually have someone available 24/7."
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Such patients drain me emotionally, to the point I preserve over such interactions over and over. I spoke to my mother and the nurse about such experiences and they responded with that I should use them as a learning opportunity and an experience. I don't mean to whine either, I understand intern year has its challenges. However, if any with more experience can share how they emotionally get past such patients, much appreciated.
Patient
In the ED or FM clinic, I have always had patients who twist my words or lie to my face or make demands that do not make sense. I have seen my attendings, nurses and consultants have such difficult patients, but they seem to brush them off, I however tend to get frazzled by this. It almost feels taboo as an intern to discuss such a problem with my seniors and felt it better to discuss this in a confidential setting such as this.
I will tell you my story with one such patient today in the ED, elderly female comes in by EMS to the clinic, patient has a hx of HTN and her BP was elevated, with some non-specific ekg changes and fatigue for the last two weeks that had PCP worried about possible ACS. It isn't unusual story and the workup I have down pat (L of Saline, Tropsx2, ekg, UA, CBC and CMP), I informed my attending after the workup was started and everything was going fine. Patient is hard of hearing, so I raise my voice in an effort to communicate with her and she asks me to remove my mask so she can perhaps articulate my words from my lips (I am assuming this is the meaning behind this odd request).
My attending drops in and sees the patient and comes back. He tells me, she reported that she has been feeling woozy lately, I should throw in a non-con Brain CT. I do that and in about 15 minute, the whole story takes a downwards turn. I have one of the ER nurses come to find me to tell me, the patient is angry, she is removing her IV and she wants to go home.
I go see the Patient, she tells me my attending said she could go home. I try to reason with her, that she gave my attending a history of dizziness and that plus her recent fatigue would be better for her to be evaluated with a CT scan. She is angry and not ready to listen. She denies having shared any such information, she tells me what she meant was she felt dizzy like a week back when this episode started. So I use that as a way to try and convince her for a CT scan. She refuses, patient is adamant. I go to my attending and inform him of the plan.
Attending says go ahead and discharge her. She changes her mind, begins asking me what was wrong with her, I tell her, she again request me to take off my mask. I am trying to convince her to stay, her BP is high, we can give her BP meds. She is still confrontational about dizziness and the Head CT, reports she should not need one now as she doesn't have any sxs. She is threatening to remove her IV and leave. in the meantime, I approach my attending several times about input and possible recommendations for the patient. Eventually, there is a shift change of nurses a new nurse comes in. I am grateful to her as she rescues me from this situation and convinces her to stay for the second set of troponin and the CT scan.
Such an interaction isn't new to me like I have said. As a fourth year, during my SUB-I I have observed several interns, residents and attendings with such patients.
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A day or so ago, I had another patient, for a infected panc. pseudocyst, I finished my workup and set everything up. However, the patient reports he wants to leave AMA and have the I&D procedure done at his Hometown hospital. I try to convince him, but, he is adamant and wants me to speak to his GI/Surgeon doctor.
I offer to do so, however,2 to covid, they are closed and not doing any procedures either. as he is still adamant to leave AMA, I have got that paperwork set up, he then asks me "Do you know what will happen to insurance payment? Will I have to pay more because I am leaving ama. I politely inform him that insurance payments in AMA situations isn't my expertise. I instruct him to call insurance company as they usually have someone available 24/7."
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Such patients drain me emotionally, to the point I preserve over such interactions over and over. I spoke to my mother and the nurse about such experiences and they responded with that I should use them as a learning opportunity and an experience. I don't mean to whine either, I understand intern year has its challenges. However, if any with more experience can share how they emotionally get past such patients, much appreciated.