Our cultural background is Middle-Eastern. In my family, a real doctor is a cardiologist, a radiologist, otolaryngologist, or dermatologist (my cousin matched Derm in 2010... didn't help my argument one bit). When I got an average board score, and my parents realized the above were not going to happen, they started with neurologist, physiatrist, pediatrician, endocrinologist. I tried the "you won't be there to take my calls with me" argument which didn't go far. My dad is in the medical field himself but he is not a physician. He says he regrets his decision not to go to medical school and just wants the best for me. There is no clear cut reason why they do not like psychiatry, I am left to believe it is because of the stigma and because how would they explain to their friends that their child is a psychiatrist, when they could just as simply tell them something better? Manicsleep, I am not sure why I am letting such an influence at this stage in my life when actually all of my life I've done only what I wanted-- I would still choose to do what I want, I am just afraid of being told "told you so" if things don't work out for me the way I'd like. What if in 10 years I see they were right? I really have considered other fields, in light of this issue with them... I literally cannot see myself in anything else, except maybe pediatrics. But I really don't want to struggle financially while seeing 40+ patients a day, so that's out. A part of me tells me they will come around, but another part thinks they never will, and that hurts. I don't know how to convince them that this is a good field