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Hi guys!
I am currently an aspiring Hematologist, Immunologist, or Hematopathologist (still haven't decided). Meanwhile, here is a little bit about me: I LOVE medicine! I like helping people, and enjoy studying (I know, it sounds nerdy). I have a 3.96 GPA that I work earnestly hard for, but most of all I enjoyed the process. However, some people make me feel insecure about myself. I have family members who stay stuff like: "I can never see you as a Doctor," and always mention the negative aspects of the profession (ex: the long amounts of studying, the 10+ years of training, the debt, stress, etc). and say that they can see me as someone working with computers instead. Additionally, classmates will stay stuff about me like I have, "No life, no friends," because I will get a 100% on many assignments and exams (I hope I'm not bragging, I am only being honest. I liked this stuff I spend a lot of my free time studying it) and I aim for 100's because I want to do my best prepping for the MCAT. I'm majoring in Biochemistry and if I do not get accepted I plan on going to graduate school. If med school doesn't work out or if I do not get accepted, I would rather like to become a Biochemist with a PhD who studies the molecular aspects of diseases and things like that, and develop new treatments or discover the etiology of idiopathic syndromes.
My question is to people in similar circumstances: how do you deal with this? I absolutely hate it when my family members say stuff like this. I want to be a Doctor. My parents and siblings are supportive, but it's my cousins that really start trouble like this. The negative aspects they mention such as the 10+ years, long amounts of studying/stress, etc. they keep saying, make me doubt this career is for me sometimes and make me wonder if it is all worth it.
Thanks!
I am currently an aspiring Hematologist, Immunologist, or Hematopathologist (still haven't decided). Meanwhile, here is a little bit about me: I LOVE medicine! I like helping people, and enjoy studying (I know, it sounds nerdy). I have a 3.96 GPA that I work earnestly hard for, but most of all I enjoyed the process. However, some people make me feel insecure about myself. I have family members who stay stuff like: "I can never see you as a Doctor," and always mention the negative aspects of the profession (ex: the long amounts of studying, the 10+ years of training, the debt, stress, etc). and say that they can see me as someone working with computers instead. Additionally, classmates will stay stuff about me like I have, "No life, no friends," because I will get a 100% on many assignments and exams (I hope I'm not bragging, I am only being honest. I liked this stuff I spend a lot of my free time studying it) and I aim for 100's because I want to do my best prepping for the MCAT. I'm majoring in Biochemistry and if I do not get accepted I plan on going to graduate school. If med school doesn't work out or if I do not get accepted, I would rather like to become a Biochemist with a PhD who studies the molecular aspects of diseases and things like that, and develop new treatments or discover the etiology of idiopathic syndromes.
My question is to people in similar circumstances: how do you deal with this? I absolutely hate it when my family members say stuff like this. I want to be a Doctor. My parents and siblings are supportive, but it's my cousins that really start trouble like this. The negative aspects they mention such as the 10+ years, long amounts of studying/stress, etc. they keep saying, make me doubt this career is for me sometimes and make me wonder if it is all worth it.
Thanks!