How to improve on interviewing skills?

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So I saw my anatomy professor today to talk about a recommendation letter. Good news is he said he would be glad to help me because of my good grades, but he called me out on my social skills. He said that it would be in my best interest to improve on them in regards to interviewing. Does anyone know of good resources or workshops that can help me with this?
 
Are you sure this is the right person to ask for a letter of recommendation? If he told you that you need to work on your social skills, what do you think he will say in letter of rec that you can't see?
 
Toastmasters, campus clubs, explaining something to yourself out loud in front of the mirror, etc.
 
So I saw my anatomy professor today to talk about a recommendation letter. Good news is he said he would be glad to help me because of my good grades, but he called me out on my social skills. He said that it would be in my best interest to improve on them in regards to interviewing. Does anyone know of good resources or workshops that can help me with this?
1. Get somebody else's advice on this, but if a teacher told me I had poor social skills (even in a nicely formulated way) I wouldn't want to use that person's letter of recommendation unless I had no better options.
2. Doing a mock-interview at my school's career center was very helpful. My particular school offers them for free if you're a current student, in which case maybe do multiple? I was already an alumna when I applied to med school so I paid for it, but even so, it was worth the $50.
3. I also downloaded a bunch of lists of questions off of the internet (just search for medical school interview questions), and then forced myself to come up with answers for most of them. It was tedious but good practice for interviews.

Edit: Reading other people's posts I realize I covered interview prep but not general conversation skills. Refer to other posts for that.
 
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Toastmasters, campus clubs, explaining something to yourself out loud in front of the mirror, etc.
I'll second the Toastmasters! @O731 just start talking with different types of people about random things. Its something that comes with time.
 
1. Get somebody else's advice on this, but if a teacher told me I had poor social skills (even in a nicely formulated way) I wouldn't want to use that person's letter of recommendation unless I had no better options.
2. Doing a mock-interview at my school's career center was very helpful. My particular school offers them for free if you're a current student, in which case maybe do multiple? I was already an alumna when I applied to med school so I paid for it, but even so, it was worth the $50.
3. I also downloaded a bunch of lists of questions off of the internet (just search for medical school interview questions), and then forced myself to come up with answers for most of them. It was tedious but good practice for interviews.

All good ideas. With regard to #3, think about these and answer them aloud in the car or in the shower but do not write down any answers. Do not write a script, do not memorize a script. Being "scripted" comes across as being insincere and it is not an attribute adcoms are seeking. Be natural, be conversational.

If you are a bit shy, make a point of making small talk and even having deeper conversations with older people (your parents or grandparents ages). Ideally, you find some people who don't know you well and who are professionals of some kind and have them ask you questions about your research, your courses, your life experiences. It is good practice for interviews.
 
All good ideas. With regard to #3, think about these and answer them aloud in the car or in the shower but do not write down any answers. Do not write a script, do not memorize a script. Being "scripted" comes across as being insincere and it is not an attribute adcoms are seeking. Be natural, be conversational.

If you are a bit shy, make a point of making small talk and even having deeper conversations with older people (your parents or grandparents ages). Ideally, you find some people who don't know you well and who are professionals of some kind and have them ask you questions about your research, your courses, your life experiences. It is good practice for interviews.

^^^ THIS.
I had to present ALL the time in UG and later in my PB, so naturally I learned to stop getting nervous and learn to really articulate my thoughts and feeling. I was lucky to be able to stumble back then VS now. First step is to recognize these emotions going through your head as they come, I believe.
Strike up conversations with random professors, ask about their research or something. Make yourself be put in an awkward position. Crawl out.
Eat or be eaten 😀
 
Wow, great feedback! I think i'm still going to ask him for my LOR because he was very impressed with my post bacc grades. He made comments on how my semesters were very loaded with sciences and labs and I still got 4.0 (except that damn B in physics I...), and he said he has faith i'll do good on the MCAT. Specifically, he said that I had trouble making eye contact with him when I was explaining "why medicine?", like I was trying to think of what to say when I looked away. I hadn't really rehearsed that specifically, and so had to look away to come up with an answer out of thin air.

lol at the comments on dates. Why is it that the moment we become committed (relationship or other obligations) girls/guys just come out of nowhere for us. The moment I set foot on my MCAT journey some girl I knew from a while back contacted me out of nowhere, and I was pissed and just told her that i'm going to be really busy with my MCAT for the next 3 months so I can't hang out..haha. Looks like i'm gonna have to hit her up...you know...work on my interviewing skills 😉
 
Wow, great feedback! I think i'm still going to ask him for my LOR because he was very impressed with my post bacc grades. He made comments on how my semesters were very loaded with sciences and labs and I still got 4.0 (except that damn B in physics I...), and he said he has faith i'll do good on the MCAT. Specifically, he said that I had trouble making eye contact with him when I was explaining "why medicine?", like I was trying to think of what to say when I looked away. I hadn't really rehearsed that specifically, and so had to look away to come up with an answer out of thin air.

lol at the comments on dates. Why is it that the moment we become committed (relationship or other obligations) girls/guys just come out of nowhere for us. The moment I set foot on my MCAT journey some girl I knew from a while back contacted me out of nowhere, and I was pissed and just told her that i'm going to be really busy with my MCAT for the next 3 months so I can't hang out..haha. Looks like i'm gonna have to hit her up...you know...work on my interviewing skills 😉

Bruh, don't let the MCAT steal yo girl... Pre-med track shouldn't consume your life. You can make some time for her.
 
I'll add my two cents on the matter.

First, for every interview question I would come up with a couple talking points that I made sure I hit when practicing (like 3 bullet points each-ish). This is not a script, just a general idea of how my answer should flow.

I also am very shy, so one thing I did that I think helped was to literally strike up conversations with strangers (on a train, on a plane etc.) where you are going to be next to them for a while, and I would try to talk about my med school dreams. If you can't explain to a 65 year old grandmother why you want to become a doctor while sitting next to her on a plane to New York, you sure as heck can't explain it during an interview.
The best advice I could give to gain social skills would be to go talk to girls at bars. Every nervous little twitch you have will come out, and you yourself will notice it if you aren't keeping eye contact. Often bars are loud so you really need to pronounce words and inflections correctly, which makes you slow down and try to be clear. Through this method I figured out that I did this really weird thing where when I get super nervous I quickly look and move my head to a side and then look back, and girls would legit call me out after I would do it 2-3 times, which made me figure out that I did it so I could fix it.
 
Take an acting or speech class, and/or join the debate team.
Your college's career counseling office should give help in interviewing. if you know any person who works in an HR capacity, hit them up for tips.

There's also Youtube.


Practice make perfect



So I saw my anatomy professor today to talk about a recommendation letter. Good news is he said he would be glad to help me because of my good grades, but he called me out on my social skills. He said that it would be in my best interest to improve on them in regards to interviewing. Does anyone know of good resources or workshops that can help me with this?
 
I'll add my two cents on the matter.

First, for every interview question I would come up with a couple talking points that I made sure I hit when practicing (like 3 bullet points each-ish). This is not a script, just a general idea of how my answer should flow.

I also am very shy, so one thing I did that I think helped was to literally strike up conversations with strangers (on a train, on a plane etc.) where you are going to be next to them for a while, and I would try to talk about my med school dreams. If you can't explain to a 65 year old grandmother why you want to become a doctor while sitting next to her on a plane to New York, you sure as heck can't explain it during an interview.
The best advice I could give to gain social skills would be to go talk to girls at bars. Every nervous little twitch you have will come out, and you yourself will notice it if you aren't keeping eye contact. Often bars are loud so you really need to pronounce words and inflections correctly, which makes you slow down and try to be clear. Through this method I figured out that I did this really weird thing where when I get super nervous I quickly look and move my head to a side and then look back, and girls would legit call me out after I would do it 2-3 times, which made me figure out that I did it so I could fix it.

Very down to earth tips. I appreciate it.
 
Perhaps go on several first dates. You can replicate the awkwardness and intensity and desire to do well while (hopefully) presenting the best aspects of yourself.
Except don't start talking to them about why you're a good fit for medicine. Lol
 
Getting a job in any service industry would do wonders


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I absolutely second this. You will learn to talk to random strangers, and can also add dealing with horrible/stupid people to your list of skills 😉
 
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