You just have to take out the loans and not worry about it. A ton of people will be in the same boat as you, so you won't be alone in the debt situation!
You post had good advice except for these two points. I know I'm going to sound like a jerk here, but with all the financial discussions that have been going on here at SDN lately, it surprises me to see people still saying things like this.
1) You do have to worry when you take out loans. You'll be paying them off for the next decade to several decades. Imagine how long that is. Honestly sit back and think about it. You will have different goals by that point in time. You will likely have a family and kids and may even be worrying about orthodontia, college, etc. for your own kids. You really want to just not worry about debt? And I don't mean worry in an unconstructive way, but worry in a constructive way like the OP is trying to do...figuring out whether the burden they're considering putting themselves under is going to haunt them down the road. It's an important question to ask yourself.
And 2) Just because other people are taking out insanely huge loans has absolutely nothing to do with the OP. Or to do with you. Her debt burden is her own. Your debt burden is your own. When it comes time to pay, if you can't handle it, it matters diddly squat that other people have taken out similar amounts. I'd also like to point out here that the huge amounts of money that vet student are borrowing is relatively recent. Tuition has risen about 10% every. The
average debt burden when student graduate from vet school today is a bit over $100,000. In 1999, ten years ago, it was $60,000. My point in this is that recent graduates are essentially still learning what is means to have these huge debt burdens and it hasn't really been fully tested by time whether it's even realistic to think that one can dig themselves out of these kinds of debt loads. Not to sound too doom and gloom, but I worry that people just assume that it's all be done before so there's no reason why they can't make that huge debt load work, too.
I suggest you read this article.
http://www.ncvei.nl/articles/InvitingtheElephantintotheRoomfinalsummary.pdf It is eye opening.
Sorry, Optimistic, I didn't mean to freak you out even more, I just wanted to address natalieises' comments. I thought they needed addressing.