I want to be a psychologist except for one question

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I have an intense irrational fear of disfigured people. My reasoning tells me that people who are disfigured are very likely to have problems with their life, meaning they would be inclined to seek therapy. As a psychologist do you see people like this very often? Please don't make fun of my fear or think I'm a b*tch for having this fear, I can't help it 🙁. Thanks !
 
Umm...the odds of you seeing a "disfigured" client will probably vary as a function of the practicum/internship you seek out.
 
I have an intense irrational fear of disfigured people. My reasoning tells me that people who are disfigured are very likely to have problems with their life, meaning they would be inclined to seek therapy. As a psychologist do you see people like this very often? Please don't make fun of my fear or think I'm a b*tch for having this fear, I can't help it 🙁. Thanks !

But you could get treatment for it, right?
 
I have an intense irrational fear of disfigured people. My reasoning tells me that people who are disfigured are very likely to have problems with their life, meaning they would be inclined to seek therapy. As a psychologist do you see people like this very often? Please don't make fun of my fear or think I'm a b*tch for having this fear, I can't help it 🙁. Thanks !

The fact that you want to go into a profession that at its very core involves working closely with individuals is going to make it very difficult to cherry-pick whether or not you are comfortable with what they look like. I can definitely appreciate that you have a very real fear and how uncomfortable that is for you, but there is no way to avoid this issue since this is not a specific population of clients you can just choose not to work with (like children for example). Obviously a medical setting wouldn't be the best choice for you to work in, but think about how broad your request is as far as patients go. Out of everyone with anxiety or depression or any given disorder that exists, there will be a small subset who have a physical disfigurement. It's like saying you can't treat redheads. I think the bigger issue is within yourself and something that needs to be dealt with before you can work in a field like this. Otherwise it will likely prevent you from doing what you really want to do, whatever that ends up being.
 
The fact that you want to go into a profession that at its very core involves working closely with individuals is going to make it very difficult to cherry-pick whether or not you are comfortable with what they look like. I can definitely appreciate that you have a very real fear and how uncomfortable that is for you, but there is no way to avoid this issue since this is not a specific population of clients you can just choose not to work with (like children for example). Obviously a medical setting wouldn't be the best choice for you to work in, but think about how broad your request is as far as patients go. Out of everyone with anxiety or depression or any given disorder that exists, there will be a small subset who have a physical disfigurement. It's like saying you can't treat redheads. I think the bigger issue is within yourself and something that needs to be dealt with before you can work in a field like this. Otherwise it will likely prevent you from doing what you really want to do, whatever that ends up being.

This!
 
In my experience, people who are disfigured tend to be a lot better adjusted than your typical clinical psychology graduate school applicant. 🙄
 

Seriously, OP, if it's a legitimate phobia your best bet would probably be to seek out some exposure-based therapy to address this issue, because as others have mentioned it wouldn't be appropriate for you to refuse to treat individuals with physical abnormalities.
 
The fact that you want to go into a profession that at its very core involves working closely with individuals is going to make it very difficult to cherry-pick whether or not you are comfortable with what they look like. I can definitely appreciate that you have a very real fear and how uncomfortable that is for you, but there is no way to avoid this issue since this is not a specific population of clients you can just choose not to work with (like children for example). Obviously a medical setting wouldn't be the best choice for you to work in, but think about how broad your request is as far as patients go. Out of everyone with anxiety or depression or any given disorder that exists, there will be a small subset who have a physical disfigurement. It's like saying you can't treat redheads. I think the bigger issue is within yourself and something that needs to be dealt with before you can work in a field like this. Otherwise it will likely prevent you from doing what you really want to do, whatever that ends up being.


You're probably right, I'll try and get some sort of therapy for it and if it doesn't work I'm going to law school
 
You're probably right, I'll try and get some sort of therapy for it and if it doesn't work I'm going to law school

Uh, because "disfigured" individuals do not utilize the civil or criminal justice systems? I dont follow.
 
In my experience, people who are disfigured tend to be a lot better adjusted than your typical clinical psychology graduate school applicant. 🙄

Oh my god. I agree with this so much.😀
 
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