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Actually, I'm not feeling happy anymore. None of us will make it.
Now THAT's the spirit.
Actually, I'm not feeling happy anymore. None of us will make it.
Dude, like half the poeple who apply every year don't get in. This is a very significant percentage, and it doesn't include all the people who drop in the beginning, towards the end, or post-MCAT. I have a couple friends who are dentists now because they just couldn't get through the MCAT. So yes, "everyone" is an offensive, naive thing to say...and it shows how truly sheltered and out-of-touch many SDN-ers and pre-meds are.
👍 No kidding.After reading this thread..I notcied some of you guys take things waaaay too seriously..so what the OP said 'everyone'..geez..lol
I love having a whole new group of SDN premeds who have never seen it. 😀
Ok first: wow..
and I wouldve read that not assuming he was ACTUALLY being serious..come on guys he/she was encouraging us..and plus its just the internet lol
Attractive idea, but simply not true.Kong Bu said:Remember not to give up because effort and sincerity is all it takes for us to achieve what we desire!
That doesn't make sense AT ALL. I guess excessive optimism can impair one's ability to think logically.Kong Bu said:Even though we're all working very hard to become successful doctors, I know that all of our efforts will pay off and that our dreams will come true!
Now I see where s/he is coming from.Kong Bu said:I'm right now a senior in high school going to NYU next year. Since I'm in the break point between high school and undergrad, I wanted to start outlining to get a plan of what my goals are in university and what I want to do.
Hey, give me some credit here. I drew it myself! (Though I can't take credit for coming up with the idea.)what a show off! 😉
effort + sincerity + book smart + street smart + luck + interpersonal skills + proactivity + much much more = success
I'm sure I've already told you I think yours is one of the best! 👍Hey, give me some credit here. I drew it myself! (Though I can't take credit for coming up with the idea.)
Many of us will get into med school and will eagerly chase our dreams, only to realize that our hard work will be put to waste and is only temporary because everyone will die someday anyway. We will study long into the night with little to no social interaction or sleep for 4 years and be rewarded with no respect, $200K in debt, and a broken medical system to deal with. Residency will ensure that those of us who are single will remain that way indefinitely, and that 90% of those who are married will divorce. Some of us will continue to be tenacious and optimistic and truly live our lives to serve others, but our work will be like a grain of sand on the beach and will make no real difference. Our lives will be empty, monotonous, and devoid of meaning. We will look back at wasted opportunities to be lawyers, engineers, and businessmen and be filled with anguish and self-loathing at the naivety of our youth. Each day will be worse than the day before and the only joy to anticipate is retirement.
I, for one, can't wait!
It's just that in this case "optimism" is really just being deluded. Only about 50% of applicants will eventually make it to med school. Saying otherwise to try and lift spirits (though it just makes failure all the more bitter to the many who inevitably experience it) seems disingenuous.It's funny how offended people get by someone who's optimistic. Just because someone's happier than you doesn't mean you have to tear him down. I actually think optimism is admirable. So what if he uses "everyone" rather "some." It was exaggerated for the purpose of uplifting spirits. Geez. People are so insecure these days.
It's funny how offended people get by someone who's optimistic. Just because someone's happier than you doesn't mean you have to tear him down. I actually think optimism is admirable. So what if he uses "everyone" rather "some." It was exaggerated for the purpose of uplifting spirits. Geez. People are so insecure these days.
Hey, give me some credit here. I drew it myself! (Though I can't take credit for coming up with the idea.)
Thank you.Attractive idea, but simply not true.
That doesn't make sense AT ALL. I guess excessive optimism can impair one's ability to think logically.
Now I see where s/he is coming from.
It's funny how optimistic and naive some high schoolers can get.
...and you.It's just that in this case "optimism" is really just being deluded. Only about 50% of applicants will eventually make it to med school. Saying otherwise to try and lift spirits (though it just makes failure all the more bitter to the many who inevitably experience it) seems disingenuous.