I'm scared

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Chankovsky said:
...scared that no one will accept me. 🙁

You'll be fine and by the by **ahem** you may want to adopt a tad more humility in light of the fact that there are many on this board who have yet to receive even one invitation to interview. Congrats on the early 8.
 
You would be.

Listen I was thinking of titles for your next post. This one came to me:

"Hey guys do you think it matters if I get my pants cuffed? What if my interviewer doesn't have cuffed pants and I do? Should I kiss that school goodbye? HELP!"

Or maybe

"Hey do you think it matters if I use a windsor knot? What if the interviewer thinks I'm elitist? Should I just play it safe and use a bowtie? Do you think it matters if it's clipon? Someone please alleviate this intense feeling that my entire life is a failure by comforting me in my time of need!"
 
yes, humbleness is of the essence.
and, yes, if you are a nice guy/gal, 8 is more than enough to get in.
 
MedicineBird said:
You'll be fine and by the by **ahem** you may want to adopt a tad more humility in light of the fact that there are many on this board who have yet to receive even one invitation to interview. Congrats on the early 8.
Word. Humility, as in the words of the great Martha Stewart, is "a good thing".

Stress makes people do crazy things.
 
sorry, i meant humility, not humbleness. is humbleness even a word?
 
Chankovsky said:
do u guys think 8 interviews will at least yield one acceptance
Keep your head up dude, you're going to get in somehwere (hopefully a place you'll love). I'm pulling for ya.
 
Are you a troll? Seriously...if you can't get in with eight interviews, you have a major lack of social skills. Be considerate of others. Eight interviews is more than enough to get you at least one acceptance, and most likely, many others also.
 
Assembler said:
if you can't get in with eight interviews, you have a major lack of social skills.

From my observations, that may indeed be a problem
 
Pinkertinkle said:
From my observations, that may indeed be a problem
:laugh:
i was waiting for your reply to the thread.
now i can go to sleep laughingly!
 
i'm not trying to brag. I asked this question from a sincere standpoint
 
Chankovsky said:
do u guys think 8 interviews will at least yield one acceptance

You got 8 interviews! Congrats! Be happy and do your best at the interview. I'm sure you will get multiple acceptances 👍
 
With eight, the odds are definitely in your favor. But eight interviews also means you are quite smart, so I'm sure you understand why some people with fewer interviews than 8 might not appreciate the original question
 
What a meaningless thread. As you can tell, I'm pretty bored.
 
Chankovsky said:
do u guys think 8 interviews will at least yield one acceptance

A personal anecdote that is probably not representative of the norm: Up until last week, I had heard from 6 schools post-interview and was waitlisted at all six.

Lesson: You are in a favorable position. However, even with 8 interviews, you are not home free. Stay motivated and treat each interview as if it is your only one.
 
Pinkertinkle said:
From my observations, that may indeed be a problem
Well, by asking the initial question...
 
Creatine said:
A personal anecdote that is probably not representative of the norm: Up until last week, I had heard from 6 schools post-interview and was waitlisted at all six.

Lesson: You are in a favorable position. However, even with 8 interviews, you are not home free. Stay motivated and treat each interview as if it is your only one.

Congrats on UWash, Creatine! I'm sure you'll have a few nice choices to make in a few months... Although I must say, getting that first acceptance is the sweetest.
 
Chankovsky said:
...scared that no one will accept me. 🙁


I hope they give your spot to the URM 👍
If anyone does not deserve to be a doctor, it is definately you.
 
Blackstars said:
I hope they give your spot to the URM 👍
If anyone does not deserve to be a doctor, it is definately you.
:laugh: My thoughts, except you got rid of the political correctness...

Actually, I don't really care. He'll probably get a few acceptances, proving once again that the system does work 👍 It's not so hard to have a different and better personality the day of the interview, is it ?
 
Creatine said:
A personal anecdote that is probably not representative of the norm: Up until last week, I had heard from 6 schools post-interview and was waitlisted at all six.
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I feel thats what is happening to me too...already waitlisted at two and i fear the others will waitlist me too....
 
Creatine said:
A personal anecdote that is probably not representative of the norm: Up until last week, I had heard from 6 schools post-interview and was waitlisted at all six.

Lesson: You are in a favorable position. However, even with 8 interviews, you are not home free. Stay motivated and treat each interview as if it is your only one.

I second that! I have had four interviews so far and have one more next week. So far I have heard from three of the schools where I have interviewed and got waitlisted at two of them and flat out rejected from the third--and two of these (including the rejection!) were my state schools. I am REALLY hoping for an acceptance from Tufts (the fourth interview I had), that would take a lot of stress off right about now. Best of luck to you with your interviews!
 
yeah...tx. the insecurity is driving me up a wall. emotionally unstable
 
Chankovsky said:
yeah...tx. the insecurity is driving me up a wall. emotionally unstable

I have to agree with you about this process being rough. The waiting is really the pits, isn't it? I would just like to know that I'm in somewhere and won't have to repeat this next year--UGH!
 
Chankovsky said:
do u guys think 8 interviews will at least yield one acceptance

***Edited by EvoDevo***

***No foul language, people. ***

try to be a little bit sensitive. you need to step back and slap yourself firmly across your face. wah wah... i have ONLY 8 interviews..wah wah..hold on i am talking to the waaaaaa-mbulance dispatcher right now. they are on their way. 🙄
 
Medikit said:
You would be.
"Hey do you think it matters if I use a windsor knot? What if the interviewer thinks I'm elitist? Should I just play it safe and use a bowtie? Do you think it matters if it's clipon? Someone please alleviate this intense feeling that my entire life is a failure by comforting me in my time of need!"

hahah! Funny, that was very similar to my next thread... at my last interview I had 3 buttons and my interviewer only had 2, so I was a bit worried about my chances for acceptance there.

In other news, if the OP was REALLY obsessed and not just a wee bit neurotic, he/ she would bust out their calculator and calculate the statistical likelihood of acceptance based on number of interviews/ percent accepted (not that I did anything like that 😎 )
 
brynn7 said:
***Edited by EvoDevo***

***No foul language, people. ***

try to be a little bit sensitive. you need to step back and slap yourself firmly across your face. wah wah... i have ONLY 8 interviews..wah wah..hold on i am talking to the waaaaaa-mbulance dispatcher right now. they are on their way. 🙄

HA! Damn, that's pure anger.
 
Pinkertinkle said:
From my observations, that may indeed be a problem

Pinkertinkle, I have read more than a few of your posts. I don't think we'd ever get along if we actually met.
 
CarlosMielefan said:
Pinkertinkle, I have read more than a few of your posts. I don't think we'd ever get along if we actually met.

You can put me on your list, next to IndyZX.
 
Pinkertinkle said:
From my observations, that may indeed be a problem

:laugh: Pithy, yet devastating. I think Pinkertinkle and indo are tied for the spot of favorite SDNer on my list.
 
Pinkertinkle said:
You can put me on your list, next to IndyZX.

Well, I happen only to disagree with a lot of what you've written. IndyZX is an entirely different virus.
 
CarlosMielefan said:
Well, I happen only to disagree with a lot of what you've written. IndyZX is an entirely different virus.

Haha, all in good fun then. 😀
 
brynn7 said:
***Edited by EvoDevo***

***No foul language, people. ***

try to be a little bit sensitive. you need to step back and slap yourself firmly across your face. wah wah... i have ONLY 8 interviews..wah wah..hold on i am talking to the waaaaaa-mbulance dispatcher right now. they are on their way. 🙄

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: I love it!!
 
Pinkertinkle said:
Haha, all in good fun then. 😀

All in good fun 🙂 (see, I even used one of those silly smilies, and I never use them!)

I love to infuse the sugariness of these threads with a little spice. I hate when I add too much spice though, and I might have gotten carried away with the curry (get it: carried, curry) on my posting. I'm sure you're a nice person. I, on the other hand, am not.
 
in the words of the ever wise ludacris - dont be scurred!
 
brynn7 said:
***Edited by EvoDevo***

***No foul language, people. ***

try to be a little bit sensitive. you need to step back and slap yourself firmly across your face. wah wah... i have ONLY 8 interviews..wah wah..hold on i am talking to the waaaaaa-mbulance dispatcher right now. they are on their way. 🙄

I gotta admit....that was pretty damn hilarious. :laugh:
 
fotolilith said:
In other news, if the OP was REALLY obsessed and not just a wee bit neurotic, he/ she would bust out their calculator and calculate the statistical likelihood of acceptance based on number of interviews/ percent accepted (not that I did anything like that 😎 )

i did that a few weeks back and come up with some absurd number in the high nineties, which was comforting. however, given the red sox comeback this year and a girl from my high school who calculated odds for college acceptances but didn't get in anywhere I don't trust statistics so much anymore...well i do but fear i'm going to be that 1% that doesn't get in.... (can't believe i admitted to calculating that...)

hey i do statistics a lot at work so i couldn't help myself....
 
Dear Carlene,

I believe I privated you a while back to tell you that you've my vote of confidence. It probably doesn't mean much as I am not an an admissions committee, but I hardly give "the vote."

I am extremely sure you'll get in at Harvard and all the lesser schools. You are, after all, the same girl who got an invite on a Sunday! Nobody gets an invite on a Sunday! I imagine this is how it happened: the reviewer saw your file and went home for the weekend. He kept tossing and turning. He knew he just couldn't wait till Monday to alert this wonderful applicant of her interview invite from Haaaaarvard. So, there, honey, you're in. You sound like a great person.
 
CarlosMielefan said:
Dear Carlene,

I believe I privated you a while back to tell you that you've my vote of confidence. It probably doesn't mean much as I am not an an admissions committee, but I hardly give "the vote."

I am extremely sure you'll get it. You sound like a great person.

hey carlosmielefan,
thanks! yeah i didn't get the private message but thanks for the vote of confidence. I hope you are right! I am the type of person that gets nervous flying on planes even though I know statistically its so improbable so you can imagine how unsettled I feel about med school admissions.

Hey maybe we'll end up at the same school! g'night. 😴
 
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