I'm terrified and I don't know if there's a point in trying. Need advice.

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Only you can answer if you are capable of doing what it takes for this field. What I will say is you have an extensive plan; if your serious about pursing this profession now it's time to try and take action with that plan enroll in a cc and see how those science classes go. Preparing for step 10 and 11 in your plan is useless when you don't even know if you can get through with step 1
 
Sorry for the haphazardly thrown together vent in advance, but I really have nowhere else to put this. I'm at a low point in my life right now but I'm pulling myself together. It's time. If I don't do it sooner I'll just get even more behind.

The gist of it is I'm a 19 year old high school drop out. Left after junior year (2013) because of personal issues. (Tons of ****ty stuff happened, assault, bullying (I was the loser that would eat lunch in the bathroom stall and cry), depression, friend passed, dad was drinking really heavily at the time, parents lost their jobs for a couple years, mom has a severe chronic illness and we couldn't afford her medication for a while so I would often cut class to take care of her.) I'm holding myself accountable for it though and I take full responsibility for what happened, I just couldn't cope. I did well in my honors/AP classes (gifted program etc, you know that bull**** song and dance) when I would show up, but I didn't show up often or at all. Got in trouble a lot, disappointed and frustrated a lot of people who believed in me, and I don't blame them for it. Basically got told that I wouldn't graduate in time with how many classes I've missed and I would have to stay an extra year if I wanted to finish, so I just chose to finish by leaving since I was miserable.

It's funny how often you hear "these are the best 4 years of your life!" but it's obviously not in my case. And honestly, I don't really regret dropping out. I travelled to China for a over year and volunteered and interned and tutored. I basically came alive for the first time in a long while. I opened my eyes towards how privileged I was and how much I could do for the world, even if it was just on a small scale. I got back around October, received my GED in January, and I've been working and volunteering and just emotionally healing up. I have a great psychiatrist and psychologist that I'm working on. I'll admit that I have a long road ahead of me and I still have bad days, but I'm far better off than I was a few years ago and I still have some hope left in me. Sometimes I feel like Mulder going "I just want to believe"

I'm trying to really get my life together and go back to school. I'll be enrolling in a local CC next semester and I'm trying to figure out what to do so I'll be able to transfer. I already have a couple schools I want to transfer to already in mind. I'm looking at courses and transfer requirements but honestly I'm scared. I don't know if I'm good/smart/strong enough to do it. I don't have a good track record with math/science and I feel really behind when I try to review all the trig/algebra/geometry/bio/chemistry/physics that I've missed online (via Khan Academy). I'm still even trying to decide if I should take the ACT or if I should take the arguably harder placement test at my CC. I have a genuine interest in higher learning and a very real and raw desire to help people and I'm willing to put in as much energy and effort as I'm humanly able to for this, but I'm scared that it still won't be enough and then I'll be out on my ass in 4 years with a worthless degree and a lackluster GPA and CV and no other career goal really in mind. I'm not interested in PA/DO/RN work even if it means an easier road ahead.

I'll be 19.5 by the time I enroll, 20.5/21 by the time I transfer, and roughly 23.5/24 when I finally graduate from college (if all goes well), and maybe even 25 when I finally do enter school if I decide to take a year off to strengthen my application and get in. It makes me feel old just thinking about entering med school at 25 since it means I'll be 29 when I graduate and 33 (at the earliest) when I finish residency. Especially with all the 21 year old dual MD/PhD Dougie Howsers I see on here,

I'm just overwhelmed by all the stuff I have to do, it feels like I'm looking at some insurmountable uphill climb when I think about it and the choices I have to make that will affect my future. Pre-reqs, GPA requirements, MCAT, shadowing, clinicals, research, publishing, volunteer-work, extra curriculars, being a generally well rounded person.

Should I bother going as a bio major? It would allow me time to knock a few of the pre-requisites (I was thinking intro bio/chem along with my gen-eds) at my CC without much of an issue since I'd still be taking upper division courses by the time but it would allow me for research opportunities. The con of that would be that I may (with likelihood) struggle and my GPA might really take a hit on that which would significantly hurt my chances at med school. Maybe psychology instead? Easy enough as it's a soft science so it'd give me more time to focus on my harder science courses and I could hypothetically still get some research opportunities junior/senior year with it which I would be much harder for me to do if I picked a liberal arts major which I'm probably more interested in.

I was planning on doing most of my gen-eds in the 2ish semesters (Spring/Summer/Fall) so I can amass enough credits (30 something) to transfer without having most colleges look at my abysmal high school transcript (1.7 uw GPA) but it would mean I'd have to take bio/chem/physics/ochem/biochem/calc all at the university I matriculate to along with all the courses my major would require, which would mean I would have to take a year off to work/study for the MCAT.

My plan is (hinging on success):
Fall 2015: Brush up as much as I can on math/science/everything while I volunteer (work part time maybe?) so I can (hopefully) place out of remedial math and go to pre-calc and have an easier time adjusting.

Spring 2016: 12-15 credits of easier gen eds so I could ease my toes back into academia. How bad would it be if I took intro to bio/intro to chem? Maybe a part time job if I think I can manage. Should I bother joining school clubs if I know I'm going to leave before I get my AA?

Summer 2016: 6-9 gen eds that I can do while I volunteer/shadow and work part time.

Fall 2016: 15-18 gen eds, work, volunteer, brush up some more. Look at schools? Transfer for spring semester? That way I can get to know professors before the summer and maybe get a research position but then I most likely won't be eligible for any transfer scholarships (most of them require 30 credits at time of transfer)

(UIC: big school, lots of pre-meds, research opportunities, own medical school, but also feel like I might get lost with all the people/get screwed over with the weeder courses, lots of gunners, $)
(Loyola: smaller school, pre-med committee, own medical school, some research opportunities maybe (??), $$$)
(DePaul: smaller school, some research opportunities maybe (??), pre-med committee, tie in w/ Rush IIRC?, quarter system where things move a lot faster, $$$)
I know it doesn't really matter what undergrad you go to unless it's a T1 and although my parents are willing to pay for undergrad, I'd still feel bad saddling them with the bill

Spring 2016 Semester: (15-18 credits) Maybe apply to transfer now? But that means I'll be at a brand new school for fall semester and won't be able to make any connections w/ professors for research until fall 2017 (as a sophomore) and probably wouldn't be able to start research until spring 2018 but it also means I could be up for more scholarships/have an easier transition from CC to 4 year.

Summer 2016 Semester: Noooooo clue, depends on what my Fall/Spring 2016 plan is 🙁

Fall 2016 to ???? graduation date: Lots of really really hard work, ass kissing, clubs, volunteer work, getting to know professors so I may be able to land a summer research opportunity. Applying summer before junior year seems really risky so I'll most likely wait until senior year to sit and hopefully knock out the MCAT and take a year to do more research/study

I know, I know, I'm speculating way too much and way too early, but I figure I have to have a plan if I want to get my life together. I'm scared beyond belief but I want this more than I've ever wanted anything before. I know I have a lot of red flags against me, from my GED, my gap between high school and college, my future community college track record, to the lack of research experience I'll likely have. Hell, even my race/SES (ORM/cushy middle class life). It sucks that I've messed my life up so badly and I accept the fact that my dream school (Pritzker) is out of the question forever.

I have no clue what I'm doing and I've been getting more and more anxious every day because I need to know if I can do this, or if this door is closed for good and I should start looking at other career paths. Can anyone please give me some advice/motivation/success stories/anything?

Woah nelly, slow down partner. I read half of this (up until the stats and year by year breakdowns etc.), but you really have to take a deep breath.

There are a LOT of unknowns here. I suspect (and don't feel bad about this) that you don't know what to do with your life but being a doctor is something concrete and that's why you're interested in it. If you don't consider yourself to be good at science, there are a million other jobs that would allow you to help people and pursue higher education. I'm not saying that you should abandon the idea of trying to get into med school, but start off slow. Take some science courses, see how you do, maybe shadow a doctor sooner rather than later to really get a sense of what the job can be like.

None of your past adversities make it harder to get in. You're starting fresh in college, facing the kind of issues you mentioned can make you a stronger person and a more compassionate doctor if that's the route you take. I think you should ease back into school and see how it goes. It doesn't surprise me that you're freaking out when you're already stressing about the MCAT and upper-year science courses etc.

Oh, and for the age stuff you mentioned you're not even the tiniest bit behind. Starting college before you're 20? Not a concern, or anything close.

edit: Also you should explore other career options. Even if you have the grades, something else might be a better fit. I doubt that at 19 without having studied science much you're 100% certain that medicine is the only path you could be happy with. Don't limit yourself!
 
But I thought adcoms really look down on any pre-reqs taken at CCs?I was hoping to avoid taking bio/chem until sophomore (even if that puts me at a disadvantage and I have to wait another year to apply)

Uh no. Take the pre reqs where you need to. Do well in them and then do well in upper levels in a 4 year school and you'll be fine.

But like everybody has said there are way too many ifs here. Start out at the CC and see how things go. That's all you should focus on is doing nad well as possible at your CC this semester or whenever you join
 
That's a cool username, fan of Yale? One thing about medicine is that doors don't really close for you unless you mess up undergrad. I'm sorry high school was a poor experience for you-- but even from this haphazard post you seem to be on solid footing, and heading in the right direction. Remember, the prerequisite classes start as easy as AP Chem and AP Bio, and scale up from there. With consistent work, any person of median or above intelligence should be able to preform well in these classes, and it is my understanding that you are smarter than the median. Don't get too stressed out; starting college at 20 is totally fine, especially since it is my understanding that the last few years have been integral to your personal growth. Don't feel like you've messed anything up. I would take the ACT if I were you, since it requires essentially no "knowledge" past algebra/pre calc, whereas the CC exams will require a science knowledge base. Try to get more information about the CC exams; it is up to you to specifically evaluate the difficulty of the ACT vs the study required to preform well on subject placement exams. You should know that most people who do well in honors/AP courses usually preform in top percentiles of the ACT without much specific preparation. If you have test anxiety or something, that would be a different issue and one that require specific attention. All the best <3
 
I've always been interested in medicine but there's been a few pivotal points in my life that really made me start thinking about it. Watching my mom curl into the fetal position from pain because her body hurts so bad and the horrible helpless feeling I got from not being able to do anything. Working with disabled orphans and seeing how hard they struggle to do things that I have taken for granted. Watching my grandfather (a doctor himself) succumb to cancer lecturing across the country to confined to a wheelchair and cachetic. Not knowing how bad my best friend was suffering with her depression until it was too late. To quote Neil Degrasse Tyson, my motivation in life is to "two main philosophies: know more today about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others" and I couldn't see a path I'd rather take. I'm more than willing to work hard and study like it's my full time job, and honestly I don't consider myself too stupid, my main fear is that I may just be too behind.

Well as everyone else has also stated, you are not behind. You are young and don't have a lousy college GPA, that's as fresh a start as anyone gets. With hard work (not outrageously hard, never sleep or go out work - just normal hard work) you get easily get up to speed with the science courses you'll be taking. The only thing that might get in the way of your success is freaking out about the MCAT and other things that are way down the line and getting too overwhelmed by the uncertainties to study properly.

There's literally nothing about your story that would make anyone sane say, "Oh man, this person is in a tough spot to try to get into medical school". It's all in your hands.
 
Alright, to address some of the things you have said.

First, although I never dropped out of high school or anything like that, I was a pretty big lazy POS. I never studied for anything at all and got bad grades because I usually didn't even push myself enough to do HW. If you feel you have grown up and had some changes since then, then your past mistakes shouldn't matter at this point. Med schools don't care at all about highschool, so now is your chance to start fresh. I don't know who told you that highschool is supposed to be the best four years, because I would 100% disagree and say my 4 years of college were WAYYY better.

Now, your first semester may be rough for you if you don't have good study habits/ don't know how to study. But, that's okay. Believe it or not, you are in a decent position right now. ADCOMS love a good comeback story. Starting at rock bottom and working your way up is compelling. I didn't do very well my first semester (3.05) even after working hard, and yet I finished my last 5 semesters getting all 3.9+ while putting in less effort than I did my first semester AND taking much harder classes. The brain is like a muscle, it can be trained and developed.

Now, I don't know you, I don't know your potential or how smart you are. YOU don't even know your own potential or intelligence yet, but there's no reason to worry about it. The road ahead is simple: start working hard in CC and see how you do. If you get a low 3 or high 2, don't get discouraged, give it another semester. After a year of CC you will have an idea of where you stand and what you should do from there. Get some EC's started during all of this too if you can.

As for major, don't worry about logistics, just pick whatever the hell you want to major in. It will work out. Do what you enjoy. If you are worried about not being able to cut it with medicine then perhaps pick a major that could lead you down an alternate career you would want.
 
This is really simple.

You are afraid you won't do well in classes. The simple answer is: don't do poorly.


Focus your first year entirely to academics. Ace your intro classes, and any gen eds. DO NOT go as a psych major unless you're interested in psych. Go biology or some other science related field, unless you have a specific interest.

Do well in these classes, and then transfer in (the sooner you transfer the better, as you will get to research sooner).

Through your new University, start networking. Find research opportunities, and get involved in a club that will give you good volunteer opportunities (you really only need to volunteer once, twice a week at most- med schools want consistency, not a 1 week 60 hour excursion)

Summer after sophomore year you will want to study for the MCAT, assuming you've taken Bio I &II, Biochem, Chem I&II, Orgo, Physics, and at least Psychology/Sociology (Hint: take these classes early). Take the MCAT either at the very end of the summer or early Fall Junior year.
 
This is really simple.
Focus your first year entirely to academics. Ace your intro classes, and any gen eds. DO NOT go as a psych major unless you're interested in psych. Go biology or some other science related field, unless you have a specific interest.

I generally agree with the quoted. However, when choosing a major you should consider something that will serve you well if Medical School does not work out (be it a change in your life, or losing interest). This is not to discourage you in any way. I am actually a Music Major getting my Pre-Meds done. I not only think that I could do well in music if Medical School becomes a fade in my mind, but I also know that studying Music is a motivating factor in my medical pursuit.

As far as your current and past life experiences, this is a clean slate. You have nothing to worry about except making yourself better. If you do that, then your dreams will follow.
 
Test the waters first at CC. See how you do. Take it one step at a time. I STARTED med school at 33, so you can get over that right now, heh.

Exactly this. See how school goes and how well you do.

I too started med school at 33. You're very young; don't worry about missing your shot.
 
This is becoming less and less true every year. CC coursework will be fine.

There are plenty of med schools that reward reinvention.

But I thought adcoms really look down on any pre-reqs taken at CCs?I was hoping to avoid taking bio/chem until sophomore (even if that puts me at a disadvantage and I have to wait another year to apply)
 
This is becoming less and less true every year. CC coursework will be fine.

There are plenty of med schools that reward reinvention.

Agreed! I think this is more of a journey of figuring out who you are, and just happening to do well in classes as you go. At least, that is how I feel right now.
 
Oh my goodness, it's like my clone. Little background: I dropped out of high school as well. My junior year (just like yourself) I had a few issues that came up that prevented me from furthering my education. My overall high school GPA? All honesty, around a 0.8. 3 years later, GED. The biggest thing that scared me is that I hadn't learned enough from high school to prepare me for college. What I've noticed during my undergrad, is even those who had completed it, were NOT prepared regardless. College isn't even on the same map as high school.

As for math, I went from 1010 (basically Intermediate Algebra) straight into a 1080 (Pre-Calculus - Trigonometry/College Algebra thrown into one) class. If you're aiming for State Medical School, that's all you'll need. Calculus afterward otherwise.

If you're scared, start small. Just a few intro classes (math, english, bio, etc...) and get them out of the way. Intro classes don't tend to be too difficult. As you move up the classes, you'll start getting used to the work load. If you put the time in, you'll get the material out. Easy as that, just stay diligent.

As for ECs... start early. Start volunteering ASAP. Even if it's only 1-2 hours a week, by the time you're done, you should be well ahead of the game. Contact your major's department head about research positions in-between semesters around December/June/July. Have a social life, do what you love, and don't over-stress! If I can do it... uhhhh... literally anyone can. You'll do fine!

EDIT: High school isn't something AMCAS requires. So long as you do well in college, no one gives a damn.
 
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I think med schools look down more on university students that take their pre-reqs as a transient student at a cc. It seems like they were running away. Some schools don't take cc prereqs, but as @Goro said, by the time you would apply, you would be fine. I'm 28 and starting school next week, and I think my life still has an outside shot of turning out okay.

Nobody knows you, so we can't tell you that you can or can't do it. I can tell you it can be done. Someone has done it. Someone more scared, less intelligent, and less prepared than you became a doctor. So just make it happen.

I'm not interested in PA/DO/RN work even if it means an easier road ahead
My one criticism, why are you against DO?
 
My one criticism, why are you against DO?

Ignorance. OP probably doesn't realize DO and MD are the same thing. PA and NP are mid-levels, but DOs are physicians just like MDs. Full legal equivalency, can and do enter the same residencies, etc.
 
OP is thus probably unaware that their best chances for being a doctor will be DO.


Ignorance. OP probably doesn't realize DO and MD are the same thing. PA and NP are mid-levels, but DOs are physicians just like MDs. Full legal equivalency, can and do enter the same residencies, etc.
 
I've gone on a ton of sites and a lot of them strictly emphasize that CC coursework is strictly looked down upon 🙁

Could you give me a list of schools that do? For future reference purposes





It's not that I'm "against" DO but I'd just rather be an MD than a DO. If DO was my only option, I would take it. Didn't mean to step on any toes, sorry.



🙁 Are the odds really that low for me? I didn't think it would be that bad.

The odds are low for everyone. And if you were a 1.7 GPA student in high school you will need a serious adjustment to become the caliber student you need to in order to get to medical school. Note 3.7 is around the median MD GPA. DO's is closer to 3.4-3.5(and that's with grade replacement) and DO's in general are more open to re-invention and willing to overlook the issues that caused people to have rather rocky roads in the past. Which one do you think is more likely?

Don't bother worrying about the CC thing and "how it's looked down upon". There are just much more important things to care about. Gonnif actually the other day pretty explicitly stated the path of doing CC for 2 years and doing all your pre-reqs there then going to a 4 year school and taking upper level science classes is rather common and not looked down upon nearly the way SDN likes to think it is.

Your just getting way ahead of yourself here. Judging by your HS grades you weren't even close to an A student. You are going to need A's in these pre-req classes at the CC. Focus on doing anything you need to in order to get those A's. That's by far the biggest hurdle you have to clear and what kills so many people in your shoes who want to be doctors.

Remember there are people with terrible HS grades who decide they want to re invent themselves and become doctors and succeed in doing so. But there are FAR more people that want and never get into medical school in your position. That's why you are facing an upward battle; all you can do is simply prove yourself academically and start getting A's no matter where they come from.
 
Exactly what post above said, just focus on doing well. The importance of your overall gpa FAR outweighs a slight possible disadvantage of taking some prerequisites while in CC. You need to prioritize. Your only goal right now should be good grades. If a semester goes by and you figure out that getting mostly A's is doable, THEN you can start to think about these other things. ~9/10 freshman premeds don't end up going to medical school. This isn't because of taking prerequisites in CC, it's largely because of poor grades.
 
Well I would either get an A/B or an F, depending on the class. I would do the work, then get too scared to show up. Don't show up to school for a week at a time isn't really favorable towards your GPA, especially if you have teachers who strictly don't accept late work/will let you test if you missed class that day. It's not an excuse, I know. I've literally been studying/reading 8 hours a day for the past few weeks. It's exhausting but I'm managing. On my off time I read SDN and freak out lol

Stop coming here. All it will do is stress you out. Nothing you read here is going to change what you're doing next year, so take a break and come back after a semester or two if things are going well and you want to continue to plan. Especially for someone with anxiety issues obsessing over med school all day every day is not going to help you get in, it'll just make you miserable.
 
I couldn't make it through the wall o' text, but 25 isn't old to start med school. I started at 27, and have many classmates in their 30s. If you want it, you have time to work for it and make it happen.
 
You need to find out if you can succeed academically anywhere before thinking about med school.

Go kill your CC classes for a year then reevaulate. If you can maintain a high GPA then the sky is the limit for anything you want to do.
 
OP, let's start at the beginning.

You dropped out of high school for whatever reason. BTW, I'm a mom and my son has a GED and is now, officially, a premed.

1) take a BIG breath and slow down 🙂 Don't think you have to figure out the minutiae right now, right this very second. Stop. Seriously. Right now, take a breath. Okay. Now take another.

2) learn how to study effectively. It's not enough to just take classes at CC or uni or private college or liberal arts; learn how to study... what you did or did not do in high school is not enough; what you did for the GED is not enough. If you are not sure, ask the student guidance department for help. Every college has a department dedicated to helping students succeed. Use it.

My suggestion?

Do all problems assigned by teacher. All of them. I don't care what Suzy or Tom or Arnold said, do them. What did you learn from each problem? Write that down.

3) blend your classes. don't take physics/chem/bio/calc in same semester - spread them out with some easier class;

4) breathe. Enjoy being 19.5!! Enjoy having the rest of your life to live (goes for all of us, actually, no matter our ages).

5) this is really important: take each test you get and figure out WHY you got an answer wrong; not that you made a goofy mistake if that's the case but why? what did you miss? what did you learn?

6) after your first semester, quit looking at that GED like it's a dream killer. No one will care if you get A's in college and a great MCAT score. No one. Take each class, each day. Just that day. Live that day and that moment, not tomorrow, not 5 years from now, just that day. Stay present. Know when your tests are, for sure, but don't "live" them now.

Last? Good luck!! This is a marathon, not a sprint and only the pediatric neurosurgical endocrinologists sprint through all this 😉
 
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