Yes, a certain percentage of them have this attitude. You don't want referrals from these practices.
After you don't prescribe to 2-3 new referrals, they usually get the hint.
I actually had a partner at my current practice tell me that some "PCPs were complaining about you" and they were "getting complaints about how I was treating patients". They wanted to know "what is up with myself as a doctor and why I was upsetting some referral source PCPs", basically insinuating im a bad person or hostile towards patients. I was told these PCPs are "caring physicians who have genuine concerns about their patients".
My partner asked me if i was "feeling ok or something was going on in my life" implying I was being rude or mistreating the patients due to stress or some other issue.
So I told my partner to run the numbers for the complaints.
I said to him let me know the patients that are NOT narcotic medication issues or not wanting disability issues that are complaining. If you can find a decent amount of those patients, I will be happy to admit my fault and decide ways to fix my interpersonal skills or other aspects to improve patient relations.
Sure enough, the complaints were basically ALL from narcotic using patients I had dramatically cut or eliminated from opioids due to misuse/poor UDS/doc shopping/failed behavorial assessment.
Complaints from patients included:
A) "I am a good mother with children and Dr. X treated me like an addict for no reason, slammed the door on me, etc. Never seen such a rude doctor before". She was complimentary towards my PA who she conned into restarting her narcotic medications after I put the patient on a weaning script Patient was placed on short term narcotics for an acute issue (started by PCP) and was told that she would NOT keep these medications long term. Of course, long term came and she didn't want to get off of them. Weaning script was given and she manipulated the PA into restarting meds on a day I was on vacation. I brought the patient in and told her that was manipulative and she will NOT be seeing the PA further. I put her on a weaning script again and she discharged herself from our practice with complaints
B) "Doc X wouldn't look at me, had poor interpersonal skills and was very rude to me for no reason": Patient was positive UDS for Cocaine while taking Oxycontin from PCP. Of course that patient was weaned off all meds but you'd never know it from the complaint.
This is basically the REAL WORLD reason why its so hard to manage these patients. These patients are manipulative, they talk bad about you to PCPs if you cut them down/off without mentioning the TRUE reason, etc.
PCPs will often take the patients side because they don't want constantly complaining patients at their office.
Also, people don't notice the 98% of HAPPY patients that are on low dosages of narcotic (or none at all) that don't seem to have complaints about my interpersonal skills.
The "few" bad apple patients make HUGE disproportionate complaint campaigns that PCPs and other physicians notice.
These PCPs complained behind my back to my "partner" instead of confronting me directly on the issue. Many won't even tell the pain doc about the complaining patient and just wrote off the pain doc and try to find someone who will prescribe these meds.
Its really not that easy to fix this problem.