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Ok I brought this up once before, sort of, but it's a new question now as before I was panicking on whether I should even mention it or not, but I have to mention it because I don't want to risk it all blowing up in my face...
Anyway, many moons ago (really, it's been....probably about 10 years now) in the first year and a half or so of college, I made the terrible mistake of letting someone else write a small essay for me. I didn't really look at it too much and just turned it in as my own. Turns out the person who "wrote" it actually just copied most of it from online somewhere, and hence, I got in trouble for plagiarizing. I told the honor board the truth-- that I had been depressed, stressed, had alot of problems at home and couldn't focus. I was panicking that this small 3 page paper was due and I couldn't get my head focused to just write it, so when someone offered to do it for me, I let them and handed it in as my own. I've never in my life done something like that...normally I take great pride in my ability to write papers. But I let my immaturity and panic take over and made a bad decision. I regret it in many ways, not just because I was caught, but I was otherwise embarressed. I was familiar with the topic, I even participated fully in class discussion regarding the book the paper was on, and I just froze the day before it was due. I shoudl have just turned it in late or asked the professor for more time, but you know what, if everyone thought clearly all the time, no one would ever think back and regret anything and wish they'd done things differently.
I can't change the past, but since then, I've graduated from my college, and spent the last four years working in healthcare where I handle my own patients and have rave reviews from all the physicians and managers I've ever worked for.
My question is basically, how do I best address this incident that happened so long ago, and will it really hinder me that badly? Honestly, adcomms are human beings, right? They must remember that they themselves were not always the most mature and same people at 18 years old that they were in their late 20's, which is my age now.
AMCAS only gives you a small paragraph to explain this incident and i don't know what to say. It's not alot of room.....any thoughts?
Please, no vague opinions from other pre-meds who have never been through this or have any idea what the admission people would think. Speculation will not help me.....advice from people in this situation, or adcomms themselves would be great.
Or if anyone has an idea on how to condense my story into one paragraph...I'm really at a loss. I don't believe one stupid incident like this should ruin a person's life and I would imagine adcomms should understand this too, but I know they want you to explain it to them.
Do I address it in the PS also, or is that one paragraph enough?
Yes I know that is an option, but I think what I am concerned about is IF , let's say, I get accepted somewhere and they decide to review my records as an applicant that has been offered admission, it will come back to seriously bite me in the butt that I lied about it. You know?
I suppose it is a risk I could take....but I dont know. Im not trying to go to some Ivy League med school, and I suppose LizzyM works for a school that might do that but I recall her saying once that she has also suggested people with insititutional action for interviews.
I don't know. This is an incident that is not representative of me as a whole at all. It was a very long time ago and since I can speak blutnly here, I think anyone who takes one incident like this from so long ago and dismisses every other accomplishment the person has made is an idiot. But perhaps there are many judgemental people out there.
I dont know. Easiest thing to do would be to just be honest and try to explain myself, but it would be dissapointing to think someone would overlook me just for this.
Also, keep in mind that they cannot review your records without your written approval.
source - http://www.ed.gov/policy/gen/guid/fpco/ferpa/index.htmlFERPA allows schools to disclose those records, without consent, to the following parties or under the following conditions (34 CFR § 99.31):
- School officials with legitimate educational interest;
- Other schools to which a student is transferring;
- Specified officials for audit or evaluation purposes;
- Appropriate parties in connection with financial aid to a student;
- Organizations conducting certain studies for or on behalf of the school;
- Accrediting organizations;
- To comply with a judicial order or lawfully issued subpoena;
- Appropriate officials in cases of health and safety emergencies; and
- State and local authorities, within a juvenile justice system, pursuant to specific State law.
Cheers for the post LizzyM ;-)
No I wouldn't use those words of course. I actually thought they would want more detail than that, no? I keep hearing they want to hear what I leanred from it, but I am finding it really hard to fit a description of what happened, the aftermath, and what I gained as a result into that small paragraph. Argh!
As a person on a adcommittee..... tell me honestly, let's say you have a decent applicant, GPA is nothing to scream about, but MCAT and work/healthcare experience and LOR's are absolutely stellar, which is my case.....do you look me over because of a mistake I made a decade ago?
Yes I know that is an option, but I think what I am concerned about is IF , let's say, I get accepted somewhere and they decide to review my records as an applicant that has been offered admission, it will come back to seriously bite me in the butt that I lied about it. You know? I suppose it is a risk I could take....but I dont know. Im not trying to go to some Ivy League med school, and I suppose LizzyM works for a school that might do that but I recall her saying once that she has also suggested people with insititutional action for interviews.
I think the first quote gave the impression to someone who read the thread quickly that you were still weighing your options. Not very seriously, but because some people were giving you the advice not to, I thought it might not be worthless to encourage you to do what it seemed like you were planning to and not listen to the bad advice. I apologize if I came across as scolding (I don't think this was directed at me, but thought I'd throw that out there just in case 🙂)With all due respect, I am not asking whether or not to include this, i am asking HOW to address it succinctly. I have already decided I am including it in the AMCAS app,
Sorry for the rant, but just keep getting posts telling me the ethical virtue of disclosing my IA, and that isn't the debate here, I AM disclosing it Im just trying to find the best and most succint way of disclosing it. Ya know?
Quick follow-up:
Ok, so, Its been decided Im writing about my institutional action (see above) but I have a related inquiry...
Should I request that my committee letter from the health advisor address it as well? (eg- if they feel that I am currently a mature, responsible and seemingly honest individual, or some such similiar wording).
Im trying to discern whether its well enough alone that I address it in my one paragraph on AMCAS, but Im wondering if it is necessary or even favorably taken if the health advisor (in conjunction with speaking to my letter writers/reading my recc letters) also support my proclamation that I am not the same person I was many moons ago and have since proven myself as a dedicated healthcare professional.
Thoughts? LizzyM? others? 🙂
The health advisor will obviously become aware of this, and may include it anyway right? I would hope they do not include anything about me in a negative manner as they are supposed to be helping me....but I wonder if it would serve me beneficcially to have them include that they believe I have grown as a result of this incident, or just to ignore it altogether on their letter? Either way the medical school will see it on the AMCAS so its brought to their attention one way or another.
I find it almost impossible to believe that your undergrad records would be scrutinized after you have been admitted to med school. This is borderline paranoia, but just my personal opinion. Good luck to you.
I've read the thread, and this will be easier said than done.The person writing my pre=med committee letter has no way of finding out about my incident unless I tell her or she sees it on my application, as she has asked me for a copy of it after submission. She's never once asked me about it. Truth be told, I kind of think she's an idiot but Im stuck with her so what can you do. Ive seen the kind of letters she writes and my 5 year old nephew could write a better one in his sleep.
Alas....anyway....I called up the advisor at my undergrad (who i really wish would write me my letter but said I've been out of school too long for them to write it for me s i have to go with my post bacc place) and she says since i have letters of recc from undergrad and its been so long ago she wouldnt worry about it too much, as Ive accomplished alot in healthcare since then, way more than my 22 year old counterparts just out of undergrad by loads and loads, so let's hope there are SOME reasonable people on these committees that remember that they werent' the same person just out of high school as they were when they were nearly bloody well 30!
Sigh.