Is a dog possible for a single resident?

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I just finished PGY-3 and am now in the lab. I've been living with a friend's dog for the past few months for the first time ever, and as it turns out, I'm totally a dog person. I really love the companionship. Unfortunately, the dog will be moving out soon, and I'm seriously considering getting one of my own.

But I'll be moonlighting, and I'm wondering if it's feasible to have a dog given that I live alone and will not be home for 36 hour blocks several times per week. Any ideas on how to make this work from anyone in a similar situation? Maybe hire a (really frequent) dog walker? Any thoughtful suggestions would be appreciated.

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I just finished PGY-3 and am now in the lab. I've been living with a friend's dog for the past few months for the first time ever, and as it turns out, I'm totally a dog person. I really love the companionship. Unfortunately, the dog will be moving out soon, and I'm seriously considering getting one of my own.

But I'll be moonlighting, and I'm wondering if it's feasible to have a dog given that I live alone and will not be home for 36 hour blocks several times per week. Any ideas on how to make this work from anyone in a similar situation? Maybe hire a (really frequent) dog walker? Any thoughtful suggestions would be appreciated.

I can't speak for the lab years, but it would be very difficult to raise and train a new dog during the clinical years if you were the sole caregiver. My wife did the majority of the day to day stuff with our dog during residency.

I had a co-resident who was frequently having problems getting home to feed her new dog and let the dog outside. Ultimately, the new puppy ends up poorly trained because he/she pees in the house when he/she can't hold it for 30+ hours.

Dog walkers are expensive...but if you can afford it, go nuts.
 
Bad idea jeans. Dogs need the socialization of a regular human companion. Even with a dog-walker, it's hard to really take care of a dog as a single resident (unless you have a room mate).

My solution was to get a cat. It turns out that a cat is a pretty good pet for me. When I come home, he wants to play. He isn't noisy. He doesn't need to be let out late at night. I can be gone for 48 hours and not worry about it.
 
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You can do it if you have 2 dogs AND you hire a dog walker 3x a day (for your 36 hour shifts). Dogs need companionship and to pee at least every 8-10 hours. I would recommend a pair of adult, small dogs if you are adamant that you need to have a dog, but it's cheaper, easier, and almost as fun to have a pair of cats instead.


ETA: If you have a house with a dog door and a yard then you could get by with paying for 1x/day dog walker & feeding.
 
May I suggest adopting a couple of adult dogs from an animal shelter rather than buying them from a store? You will potentially save a dog's life and I'm sure he/she will be forever grateful to you, in return. And same thing with a cat. Right now there is a "summer sale" on kitties at an animal shelter where I live... you can get any cat for $10!! lol

Will you have a backyard? If yes, you don't need a dog walker, if no, yes, i think a dog walker would be nice. 😛😀
 
It also depends on the breed of the dog and where you live. For the most part, I'd say no. If you can stand cats, they are a little better about it. (I don't like cats, which means they intentionally bother me all the time) I volunteered at an animal shelter for a number of years and have seen more than my fair share of dogs given up because their owners were too busy.
 
one of my fellow single residents has one, but she has a dog walker come at least once a day
 
I'm single myself. I basically avoid anything requires maintenance. Pets, plants, fish tank, etc. Don't have a dog for this specific reason, despite the fact that I LOVE dogs.

This job is very life-consuming by the end of the day.
 
Going to agree with the majority. I have two pups, but my husband is the one who takes them to the vet (usually), and takes care of them when I am gone. We have a yard so they can play outside when we aren't home, and my husband works nights so the sleep with me when I am home (they don't like it when I get called in and have to put them outside, but they like to eat my underwear and other stuff so I don't want them to stay in there without me-for some reason they don't do it when I am in there even if I am sound asleep). Before we got the pups, the shelter was doing a buy one get one free deal so we got two and they were much easier to deal with (when we go on vacation we put out extra food and water, make sure the litter boxes are all clean, and things work out ok for trips up to a week)
 
I am in a similar situation. I love cats and dogs (dogs > cats). I really wanted to get a dog, but looking at it objectively, it really wouldn't be fair to the dog. It really stresses them out to be alone all day.

Cats don't care. I got a cat (friend rescued one), and if you feel like you want an animal, I'd advise you to get a cat! Much like dogs, they also transform an apartment. Also, it's easier to go away for a couple of days (or even just pull 36 hours) if you have a cat rather than dog.

Second the adoption point! So many wonderful animals in shelters looking for homes.
 
Not a surgical resident, but did get a puppy last Oct. with a rather busy schedule (that doesn't even compare to what you'll be doing, just 40 hrs a week, plus commuting to grad school twice a week). I would not recommend it with the schedule you'll be keeping if you live alone.

I love him to death, but I wound up getting a dog with some med issues. I make a bit more money than our residents here and it was expensive to care for him and I had to find someone to stay with him for several nights while I was at work because he needed meds during that time and needed to be let out every 1-2 hours for a Giardia infection that wouldn't go away. That's not exactly rare. It seems it's hard for some surgery residents on here to even ask for a sick day for themselves, let alone call and say, can I be late have to take the dog to the vet for something serious.

Med issues aside, dogs need companionship and the ideal is for them to bond with their owner not a dog walker or doggy day care. Most dogs, even older dogs you adopt are going to need at least some training that will require quite a bit of time and attention. Older dogs will also probably need more bonding with the owner because of their history. Rescue dogs typically need more consistency and structure. I worked nights 4 days a week so I wound up feeling guilty cuz he'd be cooped up for 10 hrs. I'd exercise him and train when I'd get home, then have him out with me for couple hours before I'd go to bed. Then back to the mudroom with him. You can plan on having your sleep schedule dictated not just by your residency schedule but also your dog even if he's not a puppy.

I was having a hard time socializing him to other dogs and people like he needed so we'd go to the dog park, but there were bad dogs there. So finally I wound up taking him to doggy day care the two days a week I had grad school. That seemed to work well and is still how we're doing things. From what I gather at the doggy day care place, a lot of the hospital staff brings their dogs, and they're pretty flexible so if the owner has to stay late or overnight the dog can stay overnight at daycare.

It'll be really hard for you to find a balance that's fair for the animal. There are options that might work, but honestly I'd get a cat or something that's more independent. Another option would be to volunteer at a shelter or vet clinic to get doggy time or volunteer to walk the dog that's staying with you (or other residents dogs ;-) or have him over for visits on your days off.
 
I definitely strongly agree with the idea of adopting an ADULT dog from a shelter or a breed rescue rather than getting a puppy. An adult dog has a mature bladder and you can easily find one that is already house trained (and may already be trained in other ways too), which will make life so much easier than trying to teach a puppy to go outside. You also already know what kind of personality and energy level the dog will have if you see it as a full grown adult. I adopted a 2 year old dog when I was an intern (although not in surgery). She needed to be housetrained, but she caught on much faster than a puppy would have.

Do you have a secure, well-fenced in yard? One resident I worked with had a doggie door leading to a fenced in area so her dogs could go in the yard on their own while she was on call. That way she didn't need to worry about anyone letting them out. If you do that, though, just keep in mind that some breeds are known for being great escape artists. It would probably work better with one of the lower energy, laidback breeds.
In fact, in general I would say that it would probably be easier to do this with a lower energy breed. Obviously you would want to avoid breeds known to be hyper and bored easily (for example avoid Jack Russell terriers and collies).

I think Doggie daycare is a good idea also if you can afford it. In my area we have some very good ones that also offer overnight boarding. I think it's good for a dog to get the socialization with other dogs they can get at daycare.
 
absolutely do not get a dog if you live alone. Your schedule will just make the dog unhappy and depressed and you will feel awful too. The only reason that I have dogs is that my ex-wife left me with them and I have a girlfriend with an 8-4 job who takes good care of them. Dogs, even low-energy ones, need to be walked and need to constantly interact with people. Cats are much easier.
 
Don't get a dog. Trust me you wont be able to care for it. I currently finished my MED-1 year. I got a 2 month puppy in the summer right before i started medicine thinking i'd have 2 months to potty train the dog and everything before i had to move into an apartment near my medical school. The potty training part worked out fine but the thing is a puppy needs a lot of companionship and playing time. What i ended up doing was sacrificing my social life just for my dog. I would also come back home during lunch break to let the dog out to pee. I would wake up extra early so that the dog can have sum exercise before i went to school. When i got home i would walk the dog. At night i would also walk him sometimes. It was very tiring. I love my dog but in the end i had to give him away cuz i dint have any social life not to mention i wasn't studying that much. Dogs are amazing. But only get one when you get married and have a wife that has time to take care of it when you're not home (that's if she doesn't work of course)
 
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