I'm not being mean, I'm being mean. I spent 22 years of my life growing up in South Asia. And i saw one thing repeatedly:
girls going to med school at 18 only to get good "rishtas" (proposals) so they can be married by the time theyre 23 and out of med school.
There is no such thing as doctor patient confidentiality
There is no such thing as bedside manner, you'd be surprised at how doctors speak to patients
The majority of them want to come to the US, the easiest way to America is to become a doctor and take whatever residency you land, because in all seriously when you go back to india/pakistan all you have to say is im a doctor in america and bham you're considered a demi god.
And all that is fine, what infuriates me is that we have to work so hard here, that everyone has this MD/DO debate going on about who is smarter, who has better shots at residencies blah blah when our system gives img's the same recognition as an MD degree but still continue to criticize DO degrees as not being up to par with MD.
A medical degree in indi and pakistn is called MBBS, fresh out of HS with none of the experiences we have here so tell me how is that degree equivalent to MD or DO degrees here?
India and Pakistan , both are developing countries with some serious problems. I get that.
Majority of the people don't date or fornicate in those countries. Marriages usually happen with the approval of parents. Getting a good education means that one is improving his/her social standing in the society.
Better social standing= better proposals. You, as desi know how systems work in those countries. I don't know why are you bringing these topics. You can't simply expect from people who are born and raised in U.S to understand the socio-economic dynamics of those two countries. Their culture , tradition and general values are completely different for the most part.