Yes sorry, OP said overweight and not obese.
My point is as I said above BMI is arbitrary. The history behind it is crap.
In this specific instance, the OP said the patient is HEALTHY, yet a little bit overweight. So I presume that means the patient has no cardiac or pulmonary problems, no uncontrolled diabetes, etc so they are healthy, end of story. There's no need to bring up the fact that they are apparently healthy AND a little bit overweight. And I'm pretty sure the OP is an anesthesiologist who met the patient just for a few minutes and doesn't have a long standing relationship with them like a pcp might to know the intricacies of their lifestyle, eating habits, exercise, daily schedule, stressors, etc to have a meaningful conversation about overall health and wellness.
So like I said I don't think OP should've been written up and permanently scolded for this, but I think it's a good reminder for us physicians that bringing up weight is very very often unnecessary and stigmatizing and our words do matter. OP said the patient is healthy, so why the need to bring up their weight?
And no you can't look at someone and tell their overall health and wellness. I'm fat/obese/overweight whatever you want to call it, but I eat a plant based diet most days (other days I eat chicken and fish), run marathons, do triathlons, lift weights, do yoga and have a normal blood pressure, blood sugar, and lipid panel. Most people don't fall in to the super skinny category or the body builder category....most people are somewhere in between so no you can't look at them and tell if they ate salad all week and went to the gym this morning or if they can't even run a half mile.
There's plenty of information out there about fat shaming and fat phobia and how the medical community treats fat people differently than not fat people (I've seen some pretty horrific comments on this board for example), so to think that it doesn't matter is incorrect.