KAnsas State is my top choice. The letter would not be anything close to the deciding factor for me or hopefully anyone else. I do not know how asking others what they thought of the letter compared to other school's means I am complaining about everything. You do not know me or my history or how hard I worked to turn my life around to get into a wonderful school like K State and I think your making presumptions about me as a current K State student is the only truly bad impression of K State I have received thus far. I stated that I was much more impressed with another school's acceptance letter. That is all.
Congratulations on your acceptance, Scubble
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My theory is this-
I would guess (total guess) that perhaps 1-2 people draft/write the acceptance letters. I have my original acceptance letter somewhere back home, and a scanned copy - but not on this PC. I personally tend to notice semantics and tones in writing, too, so I get what you're saying. I don't recall my letter striking me that way, but, it was awhile back now, and, I was elated because of all the rejections I had already received!
With that said... I'm also guessing that the letter 'gets right down to business' because in the past, there were more (few, but some) options of obtaining in-state tuition/residency here, which is I believe absolutely posititutely NO LONGER the case. And with tuition being over $44k (?) now per year here, without living/eating expenses, it's big bucks we're borrowing from Uncle Sam.
I think the letter is probably trying to not sugar-coat that fact.
And, as Allie and Ruby implied, yes, I too could say more cynical things about where that tone may come from. I think a big big chunk of our school is run based on those out of state dollars coming in. I sure wish I didn't have to borrow the amounts I have and will to be here, but, I honestly will always be ever-grateful to this school for accepting me, when 12 other schools flat-out didn't, and didn't even offer me interviews either.
Focus on the positive... which I know you have and are. There's hundreds of eager folks out there wishing that they had gotten that 'Golden Ticket' in the mail too.
😉 Yes, I wrote 'Golden Ticket'.
Regardless of the letter's tone, I'm glad we made a good first impression on you.
Perhaps at some point in the future, you'll be able to give some feedback on the letter, because, I think it's a valid point. If more than one school is courting you, well, it'd be nice if the letter gave you a warm fuzzy feeling... even if you're going to dig yourself a nice little debt hole by RSVP'ing 'yes'.
But unless you're an in-state student here or elsewhere (and not all in-states are as inviting $$-wise as others) -- then most of us ARE borrowing big bucks to pursue this crazy dream.
Congrats again!
