kicked out of school

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At the beginning of the summer I tried to reach one of my classmate and long time study budy without sucess ( phone disconnected).
Class has started since Monday; at first I though my friend was in another city and will come later in the week. Another friend found out that my friend was not coming back this semester. I don't know if my friend will ever come back to school with us. I knew that my friend was on probation. I am sad that my friend choose just to turn the page so abruptly.

should I try to reach out with an email or just let it go? Have you ever been is a similar situation before?

ps: I've avoid to use the she or he on purpose.

 

[da8s0859q]

At the beginning of the summer I tried to reach one of my classmate and long time study budy without sucess ( phone disconnected).
Class has started since Monday; at first I though my friend was in another city and will come later in the week. Another friend found out that my friend was not coming back this semester. I don't know if my friend will ever come back to school with us. I knew that my friend was on probation. I am sad that my friend choose just to turn the page so abruptly.

should I try to reach out with an email or just let it go? Have you ever been is a similar situation before?

ps: I've avoid to use the she or he on purpose.

Reach out. If this is a friendship that's going to drift apart, and if this person was indeed your friend, do not let it drift apart because you didn't try your best to keep it from doing so.

 

[twester]

People will come and go from your life (as I'm sure you know). It would be hard to maintain the coordinates of everyone's whereabouts. I have a group of friends at school who I would track down if they just disappeared. I have another group of acquaintances who could disappear and I wouldn't notice for weeks.

It's hard to say what happened to your friend. If they were on probration, they may have been dismissed from school. If that's the case, they're probably not feeling the UT-Memphis vibe so much right now. You may just have to let this one go.

Personally, I'm hoping to run into at least one person that we lost last year as I watch the P1s file through the halls on their crazy-ass exam rounds.

 

[bananaface]

I would reach out if you genuinely want to continue to be their friend. Even though they may be upset and embarrassed at the moment, your continued support can help them to regroup and try again if and when they decide it is time.

 

[Mags]

I have a friend who got kicked out, and and as soon as I figured something was up, I called him.

We have remained friends and kept in touch very much.

Reach out, although realize your friend might need some time. I know its still hard for my friend now that I'm licensed and practicing, and he's not. ..

Be there, if you can🙂

 

[sdn1977]

I agree - try to reach him/her & keep in touch. There really is life beyond pharmacy & this may have been the push he/she needed to do what ultimately becomes the best thing for him/her.

But, if your friend doesn't want to be "found" right now, I'd let him or her stay lost, but I'd let others know you've tried & would like to keep in touch if possible (don't gossip about it - just say you've missed that person).

Nice of you to think well of that individual!!! It shows your good character!🙂

 

[xiphoid2010]

Almost every relationship is transient. No party lasts forever. Even my best friends from undergrad eventually drifted apart as we each went on to build our own seperate lives.

I would sit down and consider (1) just how important is that relationship to you. Is it something worth holding on to or is it something that's going to end sooner or later. (2) how much time and effert it would take to hold on to it? (3) would that someone do the same for you if the situation was reversed.

Somethings are worth fighting for, somethings are better to left to nature.

 

[LiveLoveFartRepeat]

Thank you all for your input. I finally reached out to my friend. I was happy to find my friend in a postive attitude. Just like my friend said:"There is life after pharmacy school, things have to get better".